07-02-2014, 02:21 PM
Jim,
Unfortunately, I don't think there is a straightforward answer to your dilemma. There have been members who wanted the same things you do, get the mental benefits from the NBE herbs without incurring noticeable physical feminization. Byrony is one such member that comes to mind, but she hasn't posted here in quite a while.
You could try to limit your doses to get the mental benefits without growing breasts. However, my advice has always been that if getting breasts is too much of a problem for you, it's best to avoid NBE herbs altogether. Considering your age and weight, you could always try to pass off your breast development as moobs. I would still recommend though you talk to your wife first about what you're doing and why. I think the fact she has already noticed a positive change in your behavior suggests she may be okay with you taking NBE herbs. Still, I think it's important to keep her in the loop on this and find out what she's comfortable with and what her boundaries are.
Being TG doesn't mean you have to transition or come out of the closest so to speak with all of your family, friends and co-workers. Some members try to keep it low-key for fear of reprisal, but use this forum as a sort of group therapy. For you, it may mean you take NBE herbs to improve your well-being and it's just something only you and your wife know about.
I don't have an android phone, so I can't give you any tech support in that regard.
Unfortunately, I don't think there is a straightforward answer to your dilemma. There have been members who wanted the same things you do, get the mental benefits from the NBE herbs without incurring noticeable physical feminization. Byrony is one such member that comes to mind, but she hasn't posted here in quite a while.
You could try to limit your doses to get the mental benefits without growing breasts. However, my advice has always been that if getting breasts is too much of a problem for you, it's best to avoid NBE herbs altogether. Considering your age and weight, you could always try to pass off your breast development as moobs. I would still recommend though you talk to your wife first about what you're doing and why. I think the fact she has already noticed a positive change in your behavior suggests she may be okay with you taking NBE herbs. Still, I think it's important to keep her in the loop on this and find out what she's comfortable with and what her boundaries are.
Being TG doesn't mean you have to transition or come out of the closest so to speak with all of your family, friends and co-workers. Some members try to keep it low-key for fear of reprisal, but use this forum as a sort of group therapy. For you, it may mean you take NBE herbs to improve your well-being and it's just something only you and your wife know about.
I don't have an android phone, so I can't give you any tech support in that regard.