13-11-2022, 08:31 AM
(15-04-2020, 09:43 AM)Shirazmn Wrote: @MaksimovicHi, thought I'd chime in being an older male 66 who wants, desires to have ,grow breast's.
Sorry if I write in English. I can read French but I can't write in that language. I hope you can translate this message.
One of the topics that have been discussed the longest on this website, in many forms, is how normal/abnormal/right/wrong it os for a man to want some feminine traits, particularly breasts.
The reality is that feminine straight men exist and have always existed. What we all here try to become is nothing new. What's new with us is that we try to achieve something that other men move away from. Society says that a man can't be feminine or he is not a man, so man with breasts do surgeries yo remove them and look less like a woman so society will take them more seriously as men. I think that, in this part of the forum "males staying males" we all understand that there is more to being a man than just having a flat and muscular chest.
A lot of our family experiences rotate on the need to convince our wives and families of the same thing. You can be a man, have responsibilities, be strong, etc... as society dictates, even if you have boobs, a thinner waist, and a plump ass.
I can relate to everything you wrote in this post and of what others have posted also having had many life experiences.
We all have our different reason's for what we want to do and be. Mine is to change my attitude, personallity. And I just love the thought of having my own feminine breasts also maybe loosing some body hair, smoother skin.
In regards to my partner/wife, she is okay with what I'm doing, very accepting . Very big load off of my mind. As for my adult kids, not sure, but I think I can hide my changes mainly because of I am over weight and being older it's expected ,also I can put the blame on my meds I take for health issues. This has restricted me to using only certain herbals that won't interact with my meds. Depending on how I go and feel maybe HRT, supervised .
My health issues were caused by me being to exuberant using herbals to grow my breasts, tried to rush the process , ended up with a DVT, so please don't rush, don't go crazy like I did, follow tried and true methods by people who are experienced and have put in a lot of time and effort and there are a lot of great Mentors on this very informative site.
I don't think it's unmanly to have female traits the same as I don't think it's unfeminine to have some male traits, imho, I also think why does everything have to have a box , have to act a certain way, have to look a certain way to fit in. I feel more gender fluid than cis male for the sake of boxing.
That's my story, cheers
Mishelle