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I know its a two edge sword thing about the dating. Let them know up front and it might scare off very eligible guys.....let them get to know you first and then let them know.....same thing. So the effect is the same.
I'm by no means an expert but, it would seem to me letting it be known up front, you're transgender, not interested in hookups and there will be some lucky guy out there somewhere than will appreciate you for who you are and all the good you can bring to a relationship with the right man.
i mean if that scares them off they weren't really worth it for you either.
Good Luck!
Somewhere you'll find your man.
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(24-10-2016, 06:03 PM)elainecd Wrote: I know its a two edge sword thing about the dating. Let them know up front and it might scare off very eligible guys.....let them get to know you first and then let them know.....same thing. So the effect is the same.
I'm by no means an expert but, it would seem to me letting it be known up front, you're transgender, not interested in hookups and there will be some lucky guy out there somewhere than will appreciate you for who you are and all the good you can bring to a relationship with the right man.
i mean if that scares them off they weren't really worth it for you either.
Good Luck!
Somewhere you'll find your man.
Thank you ? I'm back to trying that tactic lol. I'll see how that goes.
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Heres my latest video....
Date fail...
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I've posted these pictures of me goofing off at work..and I'll explain why I am posting this.
O.k...so this is how I'm feeling..
I finding myself taking so many selfies and feeling like I'm being so narcesistic about it. But this isn't the case, it's way better than that..I do this because I am amazed everyday when I wake up and look in the mirror this accomplishment that I was able to achieve after 16 years of transitioning. All those moments since day one that I feared I will never pull it off. All those years not fitting into girl clothes because my body did not fit them right. All those years looking in the mirror and seeing the old me staring back. The years I could never get my voice to sound like it matched my looks. Those years of feeling that I didnt measure up to what I thought was the perfect idea of being feminine...and because of that...following the safe route and wearing neutroal clothes to hide it. But one day last year I woke up and told myself that I was going to finish this and be the best womanly woman that I could be. So I found the resources I needed to get myself back on hrt and monitored correctly. One year later...I am accomplishing my transition goals slowly but surely. Now I feel like I always should've after all those wasted years of limbo. I feel more womanly now than I ever did..no testostrone ruling this nest. My emotions are always in the forefront ruling everything I do. I wear skirts to work, dresses that fit me like a glove and looks fabulous on me...heels flats, bras and panties that flatter my curves, everything that boosts my self confidence as a moman. All this at age 47! So, this is why I take so many selfies..I am amazed and soo satisfied with how my life has turned around in the course of a year that I still dont believe it's happened. I cant help but look at this face and this person staring back at me who I wouldnt recognize or believe that this would hapoen . I am just amazed and in awe of things nowadays. So dont let anything stand in your way of taking selfies as I do. Dont fear the unknown, do what your heart tells you that you should do. If you don't you may regret it.
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That's ok...like I said..although after losing hrt the first time around...I dragged on for many years trying to pull it off faking it and making it. Even though some of my progress reverted...It was too late to go back into any other mode except the one I made for myself.
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Geeze Sky, if I was new on this forum.... I would have to call it Photo Shop! ! If I didn't know better, I would swear someone is trying to B.S. us that you were NOT a CIS woman! Congrats hon...
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(31-10-2016, 03:26 PM)iaboy Wrote: Geeze Sky, if I was new on this forum.... I would have to call it Photo Shop! ! If I didn't know better, I would swear someone is trying to B.S. us that you were NOT a CIS woman! Congrats hon...
Awww thank you so much!
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Ditto
Well hot with a capital h
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(31-10-2016, 06:11 PM)julieTG Wrote: Ditto
Well hot with a capital h
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Omg! Julie...lol