Kari, i'm glad to hear that your DW is not against the idea in principle. That's half the solution right there. But, yes, the cost of the conference, the lodging, the travel, etc. is taunting, as well as, the expenditure of precious vacation time or lost income if you are self-employed. To be honest, this cross gender 'hobby' of mine is getting more expensive every day. Sigh. I'm starting to realize how much more efficient it would be just staying 100% male...LOL!
No, I don't think this is a last-chance opportunity, and I would gladly travel to MPLS, my old tramping ground, to take in a similar event should one be organized.
So sorry things couldn't be different, Kari. You are such a sweet person, and to not have the chance to meet you face-to-face is a real disappointment.
Hugs,
Clara