[Lotus]

I hate that this my first post, but the Costco line has given me some time.

I disagree, there is nothing wrong with full body pics taken in good taste.  They show the full affects of the HRT/NBE on the body.  The pics submitted focus on this and not the area of region that seems to be upsetting you.

We should not be ashamed of our bodies or shame others.  Please don't take this an attack, but comments asking people to be ashamed of themselves is not good for the forum or in general.

May I ask you a huge favour? (I know this should come from an Admin but I feel like asking anyway) Could you please avoid posting pictures of your genitals? (I mean the first 2 in the first post here). It really gives the wrong idea about this forum to newcomers. I am sure that the same picture with a red dot or a smiley on it would work just as much to show off your round hips and butt.

Thank you for understanding. And congratulations once again.

Excuse me “trayne”... Shirazam asked GC to cover his genitals… not the whole body. 

• I'm trying to figure out if GC is trolling this forum? for example… GC posted his silly out of focus posed pics in others Program Pages without acknowledging the OP…  to me that's rude, and troll like. Maybe you've missed the sexual innuendo to his threads too… like “I dropped the soap”, that's cringe for folks who don't use this forum for fetish reasons. Honestly, GC would be better suited (served) to do an Onlyfans. In addition, who needs advice on “ how to masterbate” from a senior citizen (located elswhere) lol… cringe again. I was the one and only mod for several years. In truth, I would've sent GC’s “take a bath with me” to the trash heap. 
  

• Eve does a great job managing two forums. She does have an outside life. Folks need to be patient about spam removal, it gets removed by the next day in most cases. I'd advise folks not to engage or feed with trolls, it's their goal to push your buttons. Use the report button, it works. 
  

[Heaven's Night]

Ok this thread is becoming weird...

First of all, the stuff that prompted me to post the "BN is not a fetish forum" thread are on full display again, excuse the pun. PIcture spamming has stopped, but everything else just keeps on going and going? The language is the same, this is still not a goddamn fetish forum and going into the terriroty WILL pull every fucking creep out of the woodwork like a pile of shit pulls flies. I have explained this in detail, others have explained it even more, get the goddamn idea.

Same for Trayne and who others are there lurking, nobody gives a damn about what is the motivation for NBE body mods, but posts here aren't supposed to be wank material. We are not a fetish forum, still to this moment, this wont change. So any creepy dude out there posting here writing with one hand, piss off! Report button will be singing a song every time there's creepy shit being posted you can bet on it. Your bets are better off on some other place, BN forum does not exist for your amusement.

[wee2er]

I completely agree with Lotus, there is far too much sexual innuendos and in my opinion too overtly sexualised posed images and references.
Like Shira, I too prefer not to see these images.
I think we all need to have some level of tolerance and patience as on the whole I feel this is still a safe and valid place to be, actually, pretty much unique.

[Graceful Curves]

I am really hurt by the negative comments.

When I first posted here, I asked how explicit I could be on this site.  Teddy (who appeared to be in authority) said, "Don't worry about it."  So I posted my stuff, and people seemed to like it.  It was fun to share my authentic transformational experience with people who were appreciative and who understood. 

Yes, I did post things that were sexy and sexual.  But to me the wondrous libido and full body changes that occurred were all part of the real-world NBE/HRT experience, and I felt should be reported. And I did so with humor, fun, and joy.  Because that is part of what it means to be human.  I wanted to share my joy with you, and I wanted my threads to be interesting and entertaining, not boring.  I felt that what I was posting was in good taste;  in the traditional "Boudoir Photography" style--never lewd but mildly, sexually evocative.

When I sensed there may be a problem, I reached out to HelloDiDi for help.  I modified my approach.  Then someone said that my photos were, in his/her opinion, inappropriate.  I immediately took action and changed the photos.

Then comes this avalanche of vitriol, accusation, and criticism.  Why?  Is it jealousy?  Anyone who admired and supported me was shut down as a "perv".  I'm accused of being a "troll".  I'm confused--someone else posts pictures of their big, hormone-generated feminine boobs ("Hey, look at these babies!") and then complains about fetishism and sexual content?  Wee2er writes about his "out of this world orgasms" and just now says that there's "there [are] far too [many] sexual innuendos and in my opinion too overtly sexualised posed images and references." OK, so we should post pictures of our progress, but don't look too sexy doing it.  Make sure you're ugly first.  I never thought I'd encounter such puritanicalism on a website like this!

I feel so beaten down.  I feel like I'm back in high school being bullied all over again.  I don't want to debate.  I don't want to write any more.  I'm done.  I shared with you the most personal and intimate things about myself, and this is what happened.  To the people who loved and admired me, I appreciate you, more than you know.

I have a simple solution:  If my material "offends" you that much, have admin delete all my threads and photos.  That will solve both our problems.

The lesson here:  You never know how people are going to react to things.

-G.C.

[trayne]

I truly belive that there are misunderstandings on all sides here.  I am now officially just a lurker for just speaking up.  I must have no credibility because I am not in the established group.  Come on guys, lets welcome new people.  If later they become toxic, aka trolls, then take the right avenues to either help them or remove them.

I think we should give benefit to others that their intent is to not tarnish the forum.  If a violation occurs, it is the job of the moderator to address the situation.  

If you have a problem with something, why not PM the individual?  Guys, girls, we are all in this forum trying to live our lives in a world that for the most part don't understand our decisions.  I think most of us don't like being judged for how we feel, so why would we do that to somebody else.

We all come from different walks of life.  We don't officially know one another, what gives us the right to judge a post title and it's intent.  If it is not right for you, turn the page.  If there is a violation of the rules, report it.

I hope moving forward we can encourage each other to be our best and avoid judging one another.  I think there is no shortage of that in the world today.

[Stevenator_]

Fantasizing about being a cum dump and dropping the soap in the shower have nothing to do with the science of breast growth and the content of this website.

It's not that hard to figure out ....

[Graceful Curves]

Fantasizing about being a cum dump and dropping the soap in the shower have nothing to do with the science of breast growth and the content of this website.

It's not that hard to figure out ....

I had never heard that term before and was responding to a commenter who used it first.  The things you're referencing were in the "Adult" section.  What are you doing in the Adult section if you don't like this stuff?  It's not that hard to figure out . . .

[Stevenator_]

Stop whining. Breast Nexum is not a fantasy forum.

[trayne]

It's negative comments like this that make people not want to participate.  We all learn from each other here guys. 

Do you think that it is within you to respect others as you wish to be respected? Not pointing the finger, the same goes for me.

It's still not too late for everyone to learn from this and just say we are all sorry.

[trayne]

I will be first, I am sorry!  I would like to be friends