Hi doodle,
 I'm taking a leap of faith here and that this will actually be read instead of blocked!. It's sad when I read that a member is afraid when opening a post, there should be no pressure, right?
 If we don't voice our opinions how will the dialogue ever get started?, I respect your compassion, I know you speak from your heart, that's what makes you unique, 

 perhaps a lost art form so to speak!
 I hope there won't be a separation of ideals or even emotions now, I struggle with my GID, maybe I've suppressed it long enough. 
 But If this gets ignored I'll never know, right?
 L. x