[GoneGirl]

Okay, Samantha, I was feeling a little guilty so I registered my vote after all. What are friends for?

CK

[Samantha Rogers]

You, Clara, are a sweetheart!

[Miranda-nata-est]

I really don't know how to answer this poll - it is hard enough trying to define my own gender without attempting to rationalise those I am attracted to.....


Ten years ago (ish) , it would have been more simple (although possibly not absolute even then) - I was attracted to Females full stop.

About this time though, my wife and and I dipped our toes extremely lightly in the swinging scene - we only ever met two couples although the friendships continued for some time. One of these couples had an orally Bi male and after copious quantities of red wine and when all four up together, things happened which were totally off the radar ... yet I enjoyed the whole experience of Bi Oral - giving and receiving.

This raised some serious questions in my mind as to my sexuality which may have been previously dormant.

I thrive on new experiences, particularly regarding sex and knowing this, I don’t know if I have gay tendencies or just hedonistic tendencies.

I went through a spell some couple of years ago of watching shemale and even gay sex and found it a real turn on - but in solitary mode only and this is certainly not where the real highs are to be found for me.

It has been proven that given the right circumstances, I can very happily enjoy sex with a male - does that make me gay? would I go seeking this sort of relationship, probably not - yet I cannot be absolutely sure about this.

Nowadays, if I watch porn at all, it tends to be female/female or female/shemale lactation videos - I don't mean the contrived cheap sex ones - there are a few out there where you watch what certainly appears to be true love in the eyes of the participants.

I love my wife, I love sex with my wife - we often play with female toys as it takes the pressure off me - but when the moment is right, the sparks fly as we become one - this is the real high - physical love with the one you love. Those moments when she is lying across me sucking my developing boobs and looking at me with love in her eyes are unbeatable!!!

So I am sorry I cannot answer your poll - it is difficult to be honest within the choices available.

Cheers

David
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[Samantha Rogers]

Well, David, thats why I always say I hate labels. Tee hee
Especially with words that, in this society, carry so much baggage.
And thats why I didn't use them in the poll. I was trying to avoid knee jerk responses. My lord but this country is full of people who only need to hear the word gay and they jump straight to autopilot. (I don't mean you)
I was "formed" in the late sixties. Lots of openness and experimentation and a very definite liberation from inhibitions. I like to consider that sexual orientation is just like gender, in that it is not a black and white thing. But rather, when stripped of all the preconceptions and guilt and fear layered on by a fearful society in general, it is a wide, beautiful spectrum of variations of degree, much of it situational and allowing for an entire world of human happiness.
Of course, I might be full of shit.
LOL
Considering what you said, and allowing for situational variations, I would have guessed "all of the above". But only your heart knows. Doesn't matter to anyone else, so long as it makes YOU happy, right?
Hugs

[Miranda-nata-est]

PS What is your definition of 'Rhinos' - never heard of the term - the urban dictionary has a couple of suggestions but.......

[SarahSchilling]

PS What is your definition of 'Rhinos' - never heard of the term - the urban dictionary has a couple of suggestions but.......

LOL....I think its just a reference to Samantha's "break" thread.

Anyways, what the hell is up with this poll Samantha? I was having icky thoughts all last night thanks to this fucker.

hehehe..Really weird.

[Miranda-nata-est]

Silly me - of course ...

but did you look up 'Rhino' or 'Charging Rhino' in the Urban Dictionary??

[Lisa Lou]

I'll tell you that I'm aroused by a rather select list of anatomical attributes (some masculine, mostly feminine) aesthetically packaged, real or imagined, when accompanied by a libidinous mood with or without various tactile stimulation.

CK

Okay, voted, would someone now tell me WTF did CK say??? I'm a Southerner and have and MBA, so make it real simple!

Sara, I think the Rhino refers to what Sam is going to have growing out of her forehead after consuming 3X8 of the Chinese licorice cocktail

FINALLY, SAMANTHA HONEY, OMG, RENEE!!! Thought I was going to have a mental orgasm/seizure when I saw your reference to her. A wonderful, sassy, sexy, erotic, beautiful lady... met her several years ago in Atlanta..........

BTW, Couldn't choose both and girls with a penis

Love y'all!
LL

[Samantha Rogers]

PS What is your definition of 'Rhinos' - never heard of the term - the urban dictionary has a couple of suggestions but.......

LOL....I think its just a reference to Samantha's "break" thread.

Anyways, what the hell is up with this poll Samantha? I was having icky thoughts all last night thanks to this fucker.

hehehe..Really weird.

Maybe it is time we start trying to define 'icky', Sarah...tee hee
Lisa... I took what CK said to mean " If I am horny enough I will have sex with anyone or anything of any gender if it is even remotely attractive...and if not I can use my imagination and pretend.".....
But I could be wrong...
Translation into Southern is not my specialty... pretend I said it with a drawl...tee hee...apologies, Clara
And Lisa, I loooovvveee Renee Reyes! You met her? How awesome! I am green, totally green! ... Though, come to think of it, that might be those Chinese pills kicking in...LOL

[flamesabers]

PS What is your definition of 'Rhinos' - never heard of the term - the urban dictionary has a couple of suggestions but.......

LOL....I think its just a reference to Samantha's "break" thread.

Anyways, what the hell is up with this poll Samantha? I was having icky thoughts all last night thanks to this fucker.

hehehe..Really weird.

Rhino=Rhinoceros in my mind. I thought the rhino option in this poll was a throwaway choice to vote for bestality!

As far as voting, it's hard for me to decide. For me, non-sexual cuddling and such is a lot more important than having sex. I'm not totally against having sex with a woman I love, it's just not a high priority for me. She'll have to be seductive or something to get me in the mood.