I'm not an admin, but it seems like sexual content belongs in the Adult section, plain and simple. I don’t have much room to talk though - I realized my first post was likely in the wrong place. I’ll make sure to get it right next time. GC, no one here is trying to bully anyone; we’re all adults. Let’s take the feedback and keep improving. You're stunning and amazing, don't get discouraged - just redirect! 
Yeah that term (dump) came from me. Wasn't that the Sissy thread?
And that was Adult Only, wasn't it?
I suppose I had the impression that Adults Only was a bit of an off topic forum, and the name of it implies a little bit of salaciousness. If folks can't be a little playful in Adults Only I'm not sure I understand why it's there. I don't care if it's there or not; but it is. If it shouldn't be, it needs to be locked.
I understand the concerns. GC, sweetie, I think I get you. Playful, flirty, feeling really good with the changes - you're enthusiastic. Also in my younger years I was a bit of an exhibitionist- I understand the urge to show off a little. Feelin' cute, feelin' sexy, you want to share.
Am I close to it?
Overexuberance unfortunately can be seen as inappropriate.
But that doesn't make anyone a troll. Overenthusiastic? Sure. Troll seems to be a bit of a stretch.
I remain surprised at the lack of a mod team, and I'm mildly impressed there's not more conflict then there is.
And that was Adult Only, wasn't it?
I suppose I had the impression that Adults Only was a bit of an off topic forum, and the name of it implies a little bit of salaciousness. If folks can't be a little playful in Adults Only I'm not sure I understand why it's there. I don't care if it's there or not; but it is. If it shouldn't be, it needs to be locked.
I understand the concerns. GC, sweetie, I think I get you. Playful, flirty, feeling really good with the changes - you're enthusiastic. Also in my younger years I was a bit of an exhibitionist- I understand the urge to show off a little. Feelin' cute, feelin' sexy, you want to share.
Am I close to it?
Overexuberance unfortunately can be seen as inappropriate.
But that doesn't make anyone a troll. Overenthusiastic? Sure. Troll seems to be a bit of a stretch.
I remain surprised at the lack of a mod team, and I'm mildly impressed there's not more conflict then there is.
The "Adults Only" sub-forum came upon my recommendation to Eve.
The methods and motivations of trolls can range from benign to sadistic. These messages can be inflammatory, insincere, digressive,[2] extraneous, or off-topic, and may have the intent of provoking others into displaying emotional responses,[3] or manipulating others' perception, thus acting as a bully or a provocateur. The behavior is typically for the troll's amusement, or to achieve a specific result such as disrupting a rival's online activities or purposefully causing confusion or harm to other people.[4]
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troll_(slang)
Comments like yours fits into that vulgar category and feeds the behavior. The "Would You Like To Take A Bath With Me?" was originally posted in the General Discussion subforum, I asked Eve to move it to the adult section for obvious reasons. Your statement about having a "lack of a mod team" is simply not true. For the most part we self govern the forum... you see we've dealt with trolls and the like before, and they're not here anymore, we are.
Throwing Nexum under the bus (by the above statement) isn't a good look for you.
(04-03-2015, 04:42 PM)Lotus Wrote: __Attn: Breast Nexus Members_________________Troll,
The adults only subsection creation is exactly what it implies, (adults only conversation). It doesn't imply a "free pass" exists for extreme levels of vulgarity/perversion. If you have to ask yourself (if what I post is inappropriate/offensive to others?)... chances are it might be. In other words... keep it in-bounds.
Thanks
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The methods and motivations of trolls can range from benign to sadistic. These messages can be inflammatory, insincere, digressive,[2] extraneous, or off-topic, and may have the intent of provoking others into displaying emotional responses,[3] or manipulating others' perception, thus acting as a bully or a provocateur. The behavior is typically for the troll's amusement, or to achieve a specific result such as disrupting a rival's online activities or purposefully causing confusion or harm to other people.[4]
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troll_(slang)
(15-08-2024, 03:57 AM)Jessi Wrote: I could easily see myself having been a total cum dump. Meh.
(24-08-2024, 04:12 AM)Jessi Wrote: Had to Google 'cum dump'.... what is this world coming to?
My favorite is the 'legs up' photo, BTW. If that doesn't evoke playful sissiness, I don't know what does.
(06-09-2024, 12:06 AM)Jessi Wrote: Oh no, you dropped the soap?
Drop it again....
Comments like yours fits into that vulgar category and feeds the behavior. The "Would You Like To Take A Bath With Me?" was originally posted in the General Discussion subforum, I asked Eve to move it to the adult section for obvious reasons. Your statement about having a "lack of a mod team" is simply not true. For the most part we self govern the forum... you see we've dealt with trolls and the like before, and they're not here anymore, we are.
(08-09-2024, 12:53 AM)Jessi Wrote: I remain surprised at the lack of a mod team, and I'm mildly impressed there's not more conflict then there is.
Throwing Nexum under the bus (by the above statement) isn't a good look for you.
This post was last modified: 08-09-2024, 02:32 AM by Lotus.
I wanted to reply already yesterday, but I was exhausted and morning is always wiser.
First of all, GC, I made it very clear in the private messages what the problem was. I explained it many times over. I tried to help and I see it didn't quite do what it was supposed to and now even more people are being annoyed. BN is not a difficult forum to keep posting and come along with awesome people here. There's a reason why awesome people stick around and that's what our lovely little safe place here is. We don't have a troll problem and very few creepy pervy men writing posts with one hand and the reason is simple, we do not allow porn or fetish content here.
Secondly, sexy hot photos are posted in direct relation to NBE/HRT body changes and the science behind them. I post photos which can obviosuly be seen as sexy and provocative if that's what they're interpret as, but when I post them, its "look, this happened in this and this timeline and here's why." Its not for me to get off of it or to get some creeper get his pp hard. Obviously a little celebration of transitions and growing boobs is totally ok, but we do it with good taste and within forum rules, without it upsetting anyone. I've been worried couple of times if my pics are inappropriate or should I scrub them all because I know they're being misused, stolen and what else. But I feel that posting them is worth the risks and negative shite for the good of our community.
There's a fine line showing off your achievements and being a perv. The worst thing is how it pulls the creepy disgusting wankers out of the woodwork. That includes soap dropping cum dump trolls living under the bridges here. They can all piss off from BN! This isn't the place for that, posting creepy crap or stuff that gives these creeps encouragement isn't ok. It will be called out, every. Singe. Time. And dealt with in appropriate manner. Continuous failure to behave will result to a ban.
First of all, GC, I made it very clear in the private messages what the problem was. I explained it many times over. I tried to help and I see it didn't quite do what it was supposed to and now even more people are being annoyed. BN is not a difficult forum to keep posting and come along with awesome people here. There's a reason why awesome people stick around and that's what our lovely little safe place here is. We don't have a troll problem and very few creepy pervy men writing posts with one hand and the reason is simple, we do not allow porn or fetish content here.
Secondly, sexy hot photos are posted in direct relation to NBE/HRT body changes and the science behind them. I post photos which can obviosuly be seen as sexy and provocative if that's what they're interpret as, but when I post them, its "look, this happened in this and this timeline and here's why." Its not for me to get off of it or to get some creeper get his pp hard. Obviously a little celebration of transitions and growing boobs is totally ok, but we do it with good taste and within forum rules, without it upsetting anyone. I've been worried couple of times if my pics are inappropriate or should I scrub them all because I know they're being misused, stolen and what else. But I feel that posting them is worth the risks and negative shite for the good of our community.
There's a fine line showing off your achievements and being a perv. The worst thing is how it pulls the creepy disgusting wankers out of the woodwork. That includes soap dropping cum dump trolls living under the bridges here. They can all piss off from BN! This isn't the place for that, posting creepy crap or stuff that gives these creeps encouragement isn't ok. It will be called out, every. Singe. Time. And dealt with in appropriate manner. Continuous failure to behave will result to a ban.
Well, Lotus, I wasn't aware I'd thrown Nexum under the bus, I just know this seems to operate quite different from other forums I've been a member of or involved with.
And yes I own those comments I made- which was shortly after arriving here, I might add. And not knowing those threads were verboten. How can I know that an open thread that hasn't been locked by a moderator, is verboten? I had just got here. I was just trying to be social. A mistake I won't make again. I'm just here for the NBE.
And yes I own those comments I made- which was shortly after arriving here, I might add. And not knowing those threads were verboten. How can I know that an open thread that hasn't been locked by a moderator, is verboten? I had just got here. I was just trying to be social. A mistake I won't make again. I'm just here for the NBE.
GC, I've been on BN for a few years now and honestly there's is no bullying on here as we are pretty good at self regulating our members so no need to take it the wrong way.
I really don't see you as a troll at all, just someone who likes the whole feminisation process and everything that comes with it, for which there is absolutely nothing wrong with that at all; and you did the right thing by reaching out to Didi for guidance.
My out of this word comment was included with the overall effects that I am experiencing, so clearly was not a topic of discussion in itself, whereas posting about baths and self-pleasuring as the main theme of the post is clearly very different.
As we have an adults section there is nothing wrong with posting these sorts of topics as long as they are in the adult section and we are mindful of what we say in replies to posts elsewhere on the forum.
Think we should all take this as a lessoned learnt - keep the main sections on topic: breast growth and body feminisation, anything risqué or not on topic stick it in the adults section and
yes there will be mistakes along the way, we are all human.
But most of all, let's all keep working together to keep BN the safe and very unique space it is.
I really don't see you as a troll at all, just someone who likes the whole feminisation process and everything that comes with it, for which there is absolutely nothing wrong with that at all; and you did the right thing by reaching out to Didi for guidance.
My out of this word comment was included with the overall effects that I am experiencing, so clearly was not a topic of discussion in itself, whereas posting about baths and self-pleasuring as the main theme of the post is clearly very different.
As we have an adults section there is nothing wrong with posting these sorts of topics as long as they are in the adult section and we are mindful of what we say in replies to posts elsewhere on the forum.
Think we should all take this as a lessoned learnt - keep the main sections on topic: breast growth and body feminisation, anything risqué or not on topic stick it in the adults section and
yes there will be mistakes along the way, we are all human.
But most of all, let's all keep working together to keep BN the safe and very unique space it is.
There are some great comments from our senior members with great advice, we always do not agree with everyone all the time that is democracy, but be civil with it.
If you are unsure ask the Mods, they may not get back to you right away but they will, or ask one of the more esteemed members who will have been there and done that.
But when I was in the military we had a saying, might sound silly, but it stood me and others in good stead, and I am sure other ex military on here will agree.
Ask yourself will my pictures /photos offend others
"If there is a doubt there is no doubt" so do not do it.
Ian
If you are unsure ask the Mods, they may not get back to you right away but they will, or ask one of the more esteemed members who will have been there and done that.
But when I was in the military we had a saying, might sound silly, but it stood me and others in good stead, and I am sure other ex military on here will agree.
Ask yourself will my pictures /photos offend others
"If there is a doubt there is no doubt" so do not do it.
Ian
First and foremost congratulations on your 3 years of nbe. That's a great achievement and shows some serious dedication.
As for everything else being discussed on this thread. For me I believe it got to a boiling point I started seeing the same photos of you naked or almost naked in just about every thread I started to read, and most of those threads were not started by you. I don't know why there is the urge to always share naked photos of yourself but it seemed like you found any reason to hijack someone else's thread so you can share more photos of yourself nude or in some vulgar manor.
I'm glad you are proud of your body and the changes you've been able to accomplish over the years, but I feel it was getting out of hand. There was a few times I had almost said something to you about it but I had decided not to, that it wasn't my place so I remained quiet.
I'm not really sure what the adult only section rules are. But for the rest of the forum the non adult topic area should be left for those experimenting with nbe and sharing their results for educational purposes for all of us to learn from. Do some threads get off path by talking about the other changes caused by nbe other than breast growth yes, of courses but you don't see everyone posting full body naked pictures or posing in a sex position, that's where people start to say this is crossing a line never intended for this forum. If you want to share those kinds of things go to a different website/forum.
Just my opinion but it's my perception of what's been going on.
As for everything else being discussed on this thread. For me I believe it got to a boiling point I started seeing the same photos of you naked or almost naked in just about every thread I started to read, and most of those threads were not started by you. I don't know why there is the urge to always share naked photos of yourself but it seemed like you found any reason to hijack someone else's thread so you can share more photos of yourself nude or in some vulgar manor.
I'm glad you are proud of your body and the changes you've been able to accomplish over the years, but I feel it was getting out of hand. There was a few times I had almost said something to you about it but I had decided not to, that it wasn't my place so I remained quiet.
I'm not really sure what the adult only section rules are. But for the rest of the forum the non adult topic area should be left for those experimenting with nbe and sharing their results for educational purposes for all of us to learn from. Do some threads get off path by talking about the other changes caused by nbe other than breast growth yes, of courses but you don't see everyone posting full body naked pictures or posing in a sex position, that's where people start to say this is crossing a line never intended for this forum. If you want to share those kinds of things go to a different website/forum.
Just my opinion but it's my perception of what's been going on.
(13-09-2024, 08:12 PM)CM213 Wrote: ... As for everything else being discussed on this thread. For me I believe it got to a boiling point I started seeing the same photos of you naked or almost naked in just about every thread I started to read, and most of those threads were not started by you. I don't know why there is the urge to always share naked photos of yourself but it seemed like you found any reason to hijack someone else's thread so you can share more photos of yourself nude or in some vulgar manor. ...Exactly my thoughts as well!
Best regards,
ChuckM
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