(17-03-2016, 04:36 AM)stefanie_s Wrote: Exactly my point. Not much support for anyone. And Lotus has the balls to tell me that I need to respond to other people's posts and HE hasn't responded to any of my posts ever and I have been here since 7/2013. Really?
Yup, I do have balls thank you very much, (not happy about that at times though, lol).

Stephanie, the lack of comments have been a concern since you joined.
(31-07-2013, 09:29 PM)stefanie_s Wrote: What do you girls think?
(31-07-2013, 10:53 PM)stefanie_s Wrote: Really? No comments?
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(17-03-2016, 04:36 AM)stefanie_s Wrote: Dude, I have been here since 7/2013 and this is the first time you have responded
I've been here since 8-6-2013, you've never responded to me either..........
dude . It happens, don't lose sleep over it, I don't. I've been busy on research, what can say lol. I used to post a bunch pics of my boobs, after awhile it gets old, however, I agree , it takes a lot work. You've seem to find a rhythm of posting weekly updates, honestly?, weekly updates will not show meaningful results, monthly would be better.
(18-03-2016, 03:09 AM)WendyA Wrote: For anyone else out there considering posting pictures maintain one thread and update it over time. By updating one thread folks who have commented in the past are notified of the update and have a chance to respond even if they haven't been to the board in a while.
I agree, keep one thread for pics and updates (e.g. program thread), btw, I can merge threads for those who are interested, or, you could ask Eve, our site admin.
(18-03-2016, 12:44 AM)stefanie_s Wrote: My point here which most everyone is missing, there are too many lookers here and not enough posters. I posted my pics not to brag but to encourage others just to keep hope and in time good things happen.
Nobody is missing the point, you can't expect people to post comments, on the other hand, who knows, all this drama might open things up.
(18-03-2016, 12:44 AM)stefanie_s Wrote: When you get 500 looks and only get 8 people commenting, it's just not very supportive of the person posting half naked pics.
This isn't unique either, others go through this same thing too, for instance, last month I had nearly 3,900 views on my program page (in one day), I forget the comments that particular day, the point being if you desire more interaction try the chatroom that demon etna created, or via pm. The pace of BN could use some juice tbh, but the quality of posts are a bigger deal over the pace.
Btw, I got the feeling you threw BN under the bus, sorry.........I tend to take that personally, and for that reason I'll step in. Our creator (Eve) has a truly wonderful and unique place that folks (of all genders) can come and learn, share, give back, socialize, laugh, cry, yada yada, special special.

(18-03-2016, 10:01 AM)AbiDrew85 Wrote: This forum is NOT a popularity contest, it's for helping each other grow.
Absolutely!, more help please.