(04-07-2016, 05:06 PM)Wuerstchen Wrote: The way you are going IaBoy, you may want to dissociate yourself from your "Males staying male" forum! Are you discovering your true identity, or is it the PM and the other stuff altering your brain?
(04-07-2016, 05:15 PM)iaboy Wrote: So, cause I am impotent, and don't have sex with my wife, does THAT mean I am no longer a man??? I mean, forget about my Cross Dressing. I suppose in many circles I would of had to turn in my "Man Card" but in other cultures they might of considered me a Priest or a Holy Man. But, I am neither... ??? You make a judgment, for I cant.no. there are plenty of genetic males who cannot maintain an erection, but it makes them no less manly. in my opinion, it would be the need for breasts/feminization etc, that would denote that one wishes not to be manly. just my opinion, others may differ.
(04-07-2016, 05:06 PM)Wuerstchen Wrote: The way you are going IaBoy, you may want to dissociate yourself from your "Males staying male" forum! Are you discovering your true identity, or is it the PM and the other stuff altering your brain?
(04-07-2016, 05:07 PM)iaboy Wrote: Not really sure if I moved from atop the fence, maybe it's more the fact that I am a lot more accepting of my plight or gift?? And willing to be more upfront about it??
I hope that makes sense, it's the only way I can verbalize how I feel and think. Sorry if that mucks it up, but that is the best example I can give right now.
The funny thing is. Now that my wife has known for quite a while 15- 20 yrs about my "Hobby", and now another very important person in my life knows (aka Doctor ), I now have a concern that I will have to express and push for her understanding on me playing around with Estrogenic Herbs and such. I am, in a way, hoping that she Rx's the needed drugs to help me feminize.
But, I want to state forcibly, that I do NOT want to turn in my "Man Club Card". After 60 yrs, or at least 30yrs of being a man I would never do that to my wife, kids or Grand Kids. I really don't feel the need to do that kind of upheaval.
Rather I want to be a chameleon.. Change color's , sort of speaking, when I feel like I need or want to and have the comfort in knowing I am not just making a mockery of the female body. I have too much respect to do that.
Screwed up thought process, eh??? LOL... Well, that's me!
(04-07-2016, 05:50 PM)Tanya Marie Squirrel Wrote:(04-07-2016, 05:15 PM)iaboy Wrote: So, cause I am impotent, and don't have sex with my wife, does THAT mean I am no longer a man??? I mean, forget about my Cross Dressing. I suppose in many circles I would of had to turn in my "Man Card" but in other cultures they might of considered me a Priest or a Holy Man. But, I am neither... ??? You make a judgment, for I cant.no. there are plenty of genetic males who cannot maintain an erection, but it makes them no less manly. in my opinion, it would be the need for breasts/feminization etc, that would denote that one wishes not to be manly. just my opinion, others may differ.