They are white, same color hers are.  I am wearing out and about right now under a snug tshirt. You can see the lines on my back, but I don’t care.  I’m liking the support and my shirt looks better. I’m mostly liking my wife bought them for me to wear. 

I don’t know how much she really wants my breasts bigger. I know she wants a masculine man. But she may like some breasts if I keep acting my normal male self: 

I am going to have think about getting back on a regiment. I’m nervous to go to the pool if I get much bigger. But I am thinking about it. Maybe just a short cycle

Hi Perky
I think I am in a somewhat similar situation as you, but my wife has mot yet commented on my breasts, even though I think they are similar in size. 
About the pool, dont worry about that, just go there with your head high, and chest out.
I am on vacation this this week and spend many hours at the hotel pool and pool bar. To be honest, I want people to notice and look, maybe I an exhibitionist.
If you are younger I can understand if it feels awkard, I am 59yo and like you aiming at perky A cups, lets see if its ends there or at a small B maybe.

I attached a picture of my new tank top.  I am wearing it under a tshirt all day today.   My breasts aren't all that big, but the tank top is really helping lift them up a little.  The support is nice.

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They are white, same color hers are.  I am wearing out and about right now under a snug tshirt. You can see the lines on my back, but I don’t care.  I’m liking the support and my shirt looks better. I’m mostly liking my wife bought them for me to wear. 

I don’t know how much she really wants my breasts bigger. I know she wants a masculine man. But she may like some breasts if I keep acting my normal male self: 

I am going to have think about getting back on a regiment. I’m nervous to go to the pool if I get much bigger. But I am thinking about it. Maybe just a short cycle

Hi Perky
I think I am in a somewhat similar situation as you, but my wife has mot yet commented on my breasts, even though I think they are similar in size. 
About the pool, dont worry about that, just go there with your head high, and chest out.
I am on vacation this this week and spend many hours at the hotel pool and pool bar. To be honest, I want people to notice and look, maybe I an exhibitionist.
If you are younger I can understand if it feels awkard, I am 59yo and like you aiming at perky A cups, lets see if its ends there or at a small B maybe.

I am somewhat of an exhibitionist as well.  I have learned to enjoy the rush of being topless.  It is hot here in the summers, I usually get topless as soon as I get home.   I never wear a shirt working in the yard. We are in friend's pools often.  I sit on the side of the pool drinking a beer thinking they must notice I have breasts.  Sometimes it is thrilling. Sometimes I am self conscious, but I get a thrill out of that as well.  they really entertains me.

I'm in a similar situation and about the same size boobs. I ordered a couple of bras and when the wife saw the charge on the card got upset. I explained that my boobs jiggle when I walk and I get self-conscious. Also getting pain from excessive movement of which she could relate.  It took her a couple weeks to warm up to the idea but after I  had her stand behind me and actually grope my boobs, she's finally on board. 
 I have to admit that I really enjoy wearing a bra!

Maybe you could get some panties to match hers' too. I'll bet they are more comfortable. well, if they are wide enough in the crotch, that is... not a thong!

I'm in a similar situation and about the same size boobs. I ordered a couple of bras and when the wife saw the charge on the card got upset. I explained that my boobs jiggle when I walk and I get self-conscious. Also getting pain from excessive movement of which she could relate.  It took her a couple weeks to warm up to the idea but after I  had her stand behind me and actually grope my boobs, she's finally on board. 
 I have to admit that I really enjoy wearing a bra!

yea, this has been a very slow process.  complaining about shirts rubbing on my nipples.  Finding shirts where my nipples don't show.  If she found one of my bras I don't think it would go as well.  I really needed it to be her idea.

Maybe you could get some panties to match hers' too. I'll bet they are more comfortable. well, if they are wide enough in the crotch, that is... not a thong!

A bra and panties under my boots and jeans sounds kind of sexy.  Her underwear fits me quite well.  Baby steps....

Last night my wife playfully reached over and gave my left breast a squeeze. She kind of had a surprised look on her face but didn't say anything. She proceeded to do it a few more times during the evening. While she never said anything about it we ended up getting intimate in bed last night. During our intimacy she squeezed and nibbled on both of my breasts. Im calling it a win!

You can get away with that tank top in public, no problem. I go to the store all the time with mine and get no weird looks from others. Same thing going topless at the beach, too.

I do remember being frozen with fear about other people's reactions, but that eventually passed. Either people don't notice or don't even care.

I'm still my manly self in public. I still do all the same dude things as I used to. Work on the car, the honey-do list. Still work our homestead farm and drink beer at red neck biker bars around here. I killed two coyotes here on the farm last year. It's all how you carry yourself and the happy medium you find between you two.

Breast growth only continues to get better. It's truly awesome, to be honest.

Best of luck to you.

I'm in a similar situation and about the same size boobs. I ordered a couple of bras and when the wife saw the charge on the card got upset. I explained that my boobs jiggle when I walk and I get self-conscious. Also getting pain from excessive movement of which she could relate.  It took her a couple weeks to warm up to the idea but after I  had her stand behind me and actually grope my boobs, she's finally on board. 
 I have to admit that I really enjoy wearing a bra!

yea, this has been a very slow process.  complaining about shirts rubbing on my nipples.  Finding shirts where my nipples don't show.  If she found one of my bras I don't think it would go as well.  I really needed it to be her idea.

Agreed! It should definitely be her idea.If you are willing to wait a few months, next Summer you could suggest that the vests are too hot to wear in the heath and get her to suggest sports bras (that are essentially shorter vests). 
If that goes through, make a few comments about how good the light padding feels when it protects you nipples further.

From there, the following Winter when you wear more layers, you could progress into t-shirts bras, which are lightly padded "actual" bras.

Take it easy. If you raise the bet too soon it could cost you everything.