(25-06-2017, 10:03 PM)Happyme Wrote: So, If I havent said it before, I'll say it again...?
Anyway. Get thee to gender therapist.
If your truly ready to jump the fence, and all the indicators point that way, then your not about to give up transition, even a little transition.
You can promise all you want but SHE is not going to let you go and SHE will follow you all the days of your life.
Your girlfriend will not be happy with you springing the news after your married and have a few kids.
I hate to use the term 'Plan'. But you need to confront this with you, your gf and a good gender therapist.
You need to have a long chat with you and come up with a plan before a lot of people get hurt.
If your not headed towards transition, and just like the femme side of life, well the GF needs to know this too and she needs to understand the feelings you have WILL NOT GO AWAY... EVER!.
You can still grow your titties, and wear pretty clothes, but those close to you need to know what your up too. This little secret we all share is a tough nut to crack by those we hold dear.
Bobbi
PS you could always imagine what you would do if the GF said she wanted to grow a willie!
(25-06-2017, 11:01 PM)BigGirk Wrote: I was in your boat, Jamie. I didn't see a therapist, but I did find a series of tests online that helped determine exactly what my fascination with breasts was. Turns out it was more of a sexual thing and the emotional aspect was the result of a hormonal imbalance. Once you get started it's hard to completely ditch the fascination, it's like your brain sees that you have small breasts and suddenly you have to finish the job no matter what, but I curved it into a nipple fetish. Much easier to hide and explain enlarged, feminine nipples.
Obviously my situation is not the same as yours. The point is to figure out the nature of your fascination. I know for some people it's truly a part of their being, but if you hang around those people long enough they might convince you you're in the same boat as them when in fact you're not. If your GF is that important to you, it's worth figuring it out.
You sound kind of young though. Do you really want to hang such an important decision on one girl? Call me a pessimist, but in my experience young girls like that never stick around.