I say drop the PM and keep your GF don't mess it up over wanting breast.
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not convinced here
I thought I just had a breast fetish and was sexual but not so sure now
Also bear in mind a big percentage of TG/ts it starts with the manifestation of growing breasts ie thats the first signs of the girl within wanting to come out
Very much agree that a hormonal balance can cause this or magnify it , would like to hear more on that one ????
However you Jamie have a problem and that is your young and from what I can see look good,
Now this means you could be HOT, if the tg feelings are manifesting to this level now and you could pass ??? your going to be a pressure pot in 10 years
No point in wasting years if young,
Julie
not convinced here
I thought I just had a breast fetish and was sexual but not so sure now
Also bear in mind a big percentage of TG/ts it starts with the manifestation of growing breasts ie thats the first signs of the girl within wanting to come out
Very much agree that a hormonal balance can cause this or magnify it , would like to hear more on that one ????
However you Jamie have a problem and that is your young and from what I can see look good,
Now this means you could be HOT, if the tg feelings are manifesting to this level now and you could pass ??? your going to be a pressure pot in 10 years
No point in wasting years if young,
Julie
(26-06-2017, 03:16 PM)julieTG Wrote: UMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
not convinced here
I thought I just had a breast fetish and was sexual but not so sure now
Also bear in mind a big percentage of TG/ts it starts with the manifestation of growing breasts ie thats the first signs of the girl within wanting to come out
Very much agree that a hormonal balance can cause this or magnify it , would like to hear more on that one ????
However you Jamie have a problem and that is your young and from what I can see look good,
Now this means you could be HOT, if the tg feelings are manifesting to this level now and you could pass ??? your going to be a pressure pot in 10 years
No point in wasting years if young,
Julie
Lol i am a pretty boy its just popular in korean culture which i am half of and have been told i am very cute by many or just am seen as that way so yea.. Im open to listen to whatever you have to say because the more info and opinions i hear the more i can figure out what i want to do. I personally still dont think im trans i just want breasts and to just live my life out how id like to and not be judged or have like different opinions on me i just want to be seen as normal not so taboo. But yea i def want to hear what you want to say also expand on what you mean about the tg feelings manefesting and the pressure pot in 10 years i dont quite understand
(26-06-2017, 03:16 PM)julieTG Wrote: UMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
not convinced here
I thought I just had a breast fetish and was sexual but not so sure now
Also bear in mind a big percentage of TG/ts it starts with the manifestation of growing breasts ie thats the first signs of the girl within wanting to come out
Very much agree that a hormonal balance can cause this or magnify it , would like to hear more on that one ????
However you Jamie have a problem and that is your young and from what I can see look good,
Now this means you could be HOT, if the tg feelings are manifesting to this level now and you could pass ??? your going to be a pressure pot in 10 years
No point in wasting years if young,
Julie
Lol i am a pretty boy its just popular in korean culture which i am half of and have been told i am very cute by many or just am seen as that way so yea.. Im open to listen to whatever you have to say because the more info and opinions i hear the more i can figure out what i want to do. I personally still dont think im trans i just want breasts and to just live my life out how id like to and not be judged or have like different opinions on me i just want to be seen as normal not so taboo. But yea i def want to hear what you want to say also expand on what you mean about the tg feelings manefesting and the pressure pot in 10 years i dont quite understand
What Julie means, is that if you are truly TG, your desires will get stronger and stronger over the years to the point where it proves impossible to bear. Rather you're full on transitioner or just a fetish, or, im my case, dual gendered.... I wish I could of addressed it earlier. I feel I could of moved more convincingly between both worlds much more natively.
@Jamie
The only "cure" I have seen for crossdresers and fetishists of various kind (including myself in the first category) is to have a partner that understands and lets us free to choose. Obviously I am not talking about an actual cure for something that is not a disease, but a way to be more at ease. I am a CD but since I met my wife, that lets me crossdress as much as I want, I don't feel the need as much. I wanted to try and grow some breasts as a fetish but when I stopped and slowed down she kept giving me pleasure from my nipples and I realised that stopping the growth was ok because I already had the feeling that I wanted.
But that is if you have a fetish, and not proper gender dysphoria.
You are very very young. If you are transgender this is a good moment to transition because your body is not 100% set on being male and it can grow into a beautiful female form. To be honest, your body looks more feminine than masculine to me, and that's without taking the breasts into consideration. At the same time, being transgender is not easy and it definitely doesn't fit into the stereotypes of been a young adult that society pushes on us. Many young transgender people end up harming themselves because they can't put together the way they perceive themselves with the expectations the world has for them.
I think I read in a previous post of yours that your parents agreed on you taking herbs, that was at the same time weird and very open minded from their point of view. They may know something about you that you don't fully realise yet. A gender therapist may definitely help in this case, even if they hardly see the difference between agender, transgender and queer. I don't know in which category you fit, and apparently neither do you.
I am very bad at giving advices but I insist on this one: look into your relationship and try to understand if you can be happy as a guy with a girl that rejects part of you. Mind, I believe that love comes with sacrifice so I am not saying that this is impossible or less rewarding. It is also true that it's harder for a "man with breasts" to find a partner in a world of vanilla people with standardised expectations. It is easier for a transgender girl, than an "inbetweener".
Bottom line: pause the breast growth if you feel it's the thing that gives you more space to think, but look deep down into your feelings, even with the help of a therapist, to understand who you are. This community will always be next to you, with or without NBE in the way.
The only "cure" I have seen for crossdresers and fetishists of various kind (including myself in the first category) is to have a partner that understands and lets us free to choose. Obviously I am not talking about an actual cure for something that is not a disease, but a way to be more at ease. I am a CD but since I met my wife, that lets me crossdress as much as I want, I don't feel the need as much. I wanted to try and grow some breasts as a fetish but when I stopped and slowed down she kept giving me pleasure from my nipples and I realised that stopping the growth was ok because I already had the feeling that I wanted.
But that is if you have a fetish, and not proper gender dysphoria.
You are very very young. If you are transgender this is a good moment to transition because your body is not 100% set on being male and it can grow into a beautiful female form. To be honest, your body looks more feminine than masculine to me, and that's without taking the breasts into consideration. At the same time, being transgender is not easy and it definitely doesn't fit into the stereotypes of been a young adult that society pushes on us. Many young transgender people end up harming themselves because they can't put together the way they perceive themselves with the expectations the world has for them.
I think I read in a previous post of yours that your parents agreed on you taking herbs, that was at the same time weird and very open minded from their point of view. They may know something about you that you don't fully realise yet. A gender therapist may definitely help in this case, even if they hardly see the difference between agender, transgender and queer. I don't know in which category you fit, and apparently neither do you.
I am very bad at giving advices but I insist on this one: look into your relationship and try to understand if you can be happy as a guy with a girl that rejects part of you. Mind, I believe that love comes with sacrifice so I am not saying that this is impossible or less rewarding. It is also true that it's harder for a "man with breasts" to find a partner in a world of vanilla people with standardised expectations. It is easier for a transgender girl, than an "inbetweener".
Bottom line: pause the breast growth if you feel it's the thing that gives you more space to think, but look deep down into your feelings, even with the help of a therapist, to understand who you are. This community will always be next to you, with or without NBE in the way.
Welp im back my gf broke up with me lol im not that hurt tho i dont think it was working out that well maybe ill go into it more tomorrow but im gonna start taking pm again lol and white penoy i was never really consistent with white penoy so it should be interesting
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