Ooooh, French!!! Samantha just swoons for French, honey! You just step right in and get comfortable. You are home, baby!
Nice intro!
So lets chat some!

Garcon! Two martinis, please.
Ok, if it is ok,can I ask about you a little? You said you have been lurking ...that always sounds so icky...lets say reading instead, huh? Tee hee.
Have you gotten a handle on the different herbs and how they fit together in a program? That is important, because some of the girls, especially the ones who have been around a long time, get frustrated answering the same questions over and over again. If not, give it a try and then come back with questions. There is an OCEAN of amazing info and research and experience here. And if no one else can help, our resident guru Lotus will have the answer.
So one word of caution, baby. You are still young. Do not ignore the fact that heavy and regular use of these particular herbs can and eventually will lead to damage of some kind to your boi bits. Shrunken size of both...um...tee hee...twig and berries...can and eventually is likely to occur. Loss of erections or just a growing difficulty in attaining them may occur. Testes will stop producing and eventually atrophe. These are very real risks over time, sugar. Make sure you know what you are doing. The girls here are smart, but we are not doctors. However you may feel right now, there may come a day when you want kids.

Just be careful, ok, sweetheart?
Ok, sorry for the lecture! I always hated that when I was new! Tee hee

So what is your program?
And welcome baby. We are glad you found your way home.
Hugs