Andy
04-06-2010, 01:56 AM
Hi,Cheryl, Hope you are well. Your input to these kinds of questions are always insightful and informative. You have already completed the physical change from male to the female and have the perspective of a road traveled.
Hi Hoselover, Sorry I missed your first post. I am not on here as much as I used to be and somehow missed it. First off thanks for sharing. One of the purposes of posting this thread. Was to gain an understading of how other men (like myself) in the process of changing their bodies, more to the feminine. Feel about it, what actions they have taken, their results, and how they have responded to the reality of the outside world.
Yes, I understand where you are coming from on the whole "do I continue with this" thing. Have I gone far enough? Do I dare go farther, now that I am getting some results. Is the pros of what is being attempted outweighing the cons in your mind and situation.
I am single and will probably remain so. At my age I find it difficult to consider adding someone else into my life. My decisions on whether or not to continue are based more on my current social and ecconomic situations. IE the workplace. In your case however, there is a SO involved. (Ok, Insert my opinion here) I agree with Cheryl that maybe it is time to make a decision. Talk to your wife about what is going on in your life. Or decide if this is really what you need to do. I don't wish to sound all or nothing. There are always shades of grey. But, Depending on how far you wish to continue down this path. Your wife may have a need to know something about what is happening in your life. You know your wife better than anyone else. Can she accept what you are doing? If she is wondering what is up with you. Knowing could be better than letting her wonder what could be ,medically, wrong. The imagination can come up with the worst case scenario. Ultimately it is your call to make. Whatever your decision I wish you the best. You have my e-mail address so feel free to use it.
Who do you tell ,when do you tell ,why would you tell, or what do you tell them? What do they (others) need to know? Those are some of the questions I ask. As I slowly walk down this path and ask myself if I should continue.
What we are wanting does not fit into the viewpoint of the accepted. But, there are more and more of us out there. So who is to say what the accepted will be in time. Sometimes it takes guts to do what makes ourselves happiest. Especially when it flies in the face of convention. Holding ourselves to a course of action, despite the influence of the outside (disapproving) world. Making our place in the world, and what we want it to be. Takes a strength of character, will, bravery, and acceptance of others non-acceptance. To hold our own course.
If we can bring in others ,who can accept our diffrentness, they can then be a part of our hapiness. As we are a part of theirs.
Sorry to ramble. If I understood your last question, Yes, some of the last few posts were from G-girls. When I reposted the thread I sought to ask everyone using NBE the same questions. Who has told about their NBE? Have they run into supporters or detractors? Many people think NBE does not work. Especially for males. Did their SO's come onboard once they found out?
But, I believe your question ,feel free to correct if I am wrong. You are asking if they can have breast development from the application of NBE. Yes, it can be hard for women to add new tissue growth. There are many varialbles involved in development. What works for one may not work for another.
I hope you have found some of this material in some way helpfull. I tend to ramble on and may not have touched on your questions or statements.
This post was last modified: 04-06-2010, 10:57 PM by Andy.