(14-12-2014, 06:15 AM)Lenneth Wrote: I'm Normally the last to say this but Talk to your parents & or go see a Doctor that knows about Gender Disphoria (AKA Gender Identity Disphoria) doing this the way we do at your age in conflict with your parents views can be disastrous.
The Tricky part will be finding a Doctor that is capable of explaining things to your parents in a way that they can understand.
(14-12-2014, 06:21 AM)Blondie14 Wrote:(14-12-2014, 06:15 AM)Lenneth Wrote: I'm Normally the last to say this but Talk to your parents & or go see a Doctor that knows about Gender Disphoria (AKA Gender Identity Disphoria) doing this the way we do at your age in conflict with your parents views can be disastrous.
The Tricky part will be finding a Doctor that is capable of explaining things to your parents in a way that they can understand.
My parents think gays should be murdered. It's not really a good idea to be open about this with them. they're pretty religious.
I don't really have gender dyspeptic I just don't want a male body I'm ok with myself wright now I just don't want to turn into a man.
(14-12-2014, 06:25 AM)Lenneth Wrote:(14-12-2014, 06:21 AM)Blondie14 Wrote:(14-12-2014, 06:15 AM)Lenneth Wrote: I'm Normally the last to say this but Talk to your parents & or go see a Doctor that knows about Gender Disphoria (AKA Gender Identity Disphoria) doing this the way we do at your age in conflict with your parents views can be disastrous.
The Tricky part will be finding a Doctor that is capable of explaining things to your parents in a way that they can understand.
My parents think gays should be murdered. It's not really a good idea to be open about this with them. they're pretty religious.
I don't really have gender dyspeptic I just don't want a male body I'm ok with myself wright now I just don't want to turn into a man.
If you Don't have Gender Disphoria (which you still might have) I would not recommend trying to grow breasts or feminize your body in any way.
Also Just an FYI TG/Intersex is not even similar to Homeosexuality (neither are they a Mental illness), sadly not many seem to know that.
(14-12-2014, 06:44 AM)Blondie14 Wrote:(14-12-2014, 06:25 AM)Lenneth Wrote:(14-12-2014, 06:21 AM)Blondie14 Wrote:(14-12-2014, 06:15 AM)Lenneth Wrote: I'm Normally the last to say this but Talk to your parents & or go see a Doctor that knows about Gender Disphoria (AKA Gender Identity Disphoria) doing this the way we do at your age in conflict with your parents views can be disastrous.
The Tricky part will be finding a Doctor that is capable of explaining things to your parents in a way that they can understand.
My parents think gays should be murdered. It's not really a good idea to be open about this with them. they're pretty religious.
I don't really have gender dyspeptic I just don't want a male body I'm ok with myself wright now I just don't want to turn into a man.
If you Don't have Gender Disphoria (which you still might have) I would not recommend trying to grow breasts or feminize your body in any way.
Also Just an FYI TG/Intersex is not even similar to Homeosexuality (neither are they a Mental illness), sadly not many seem to know that.
I don't have dysmorphia because my body has not gone in a masculine direction yet. Like I said my body looks female. So far. So I'm ok with it. Which in part may mean I have an intersex condition I still am partially male at least therefore I don't want that to affect my puberty. I haven't had a masculine puberty only thing masculine that's ive experience was height. Other than that have all been subtle feminine characteristics or eunuchoidal.
I'm not attracted to men but that's what they would think they already suspect it anyhow I don't want to add to that.
(14-12-2014, 09:00 AM)Lenneth Wrote:(14-12-2014, 06:44 AM)Blondie14 Wrote:(14-12-2014, 06:25 AM)Lenneth Wrote:(14-12-2014, 06:21 AM)Blondie14 Wrote:(14-12-2014, 06:15 AM)Lenneth Wrote: I'm Normally the last to say this but Talk to your parents & or go see a Doctor that knows about Gender Disphoria (AKA Gender Identity Disphoria) doing this the way we do at your age in conflict with your parents views can be disastrous.
The Tricky part will be finding a Doctor that is capable of explaining things to your parents in a way that they can understand.
My parents think gays should be murdered. It's not really a good idea to be open about this with them. they're pretty religious.
I don't really have gender dyspeptic I just don't want a male body I'm ok with myself wright now I just don't want to turn into a man.
If you Don't have Gender Disphoria (which you still might have) I would not recommend trying to grow breasts or feminize your body in any way.
Also Just an FYI TG/Intersex is not even similar to Homeosexuality (neither are they a Mental illness), sadly not many seem to know that.
I don't have dysmorphia because my body has not gone in a masculine direction yet. Like I said my body looks female. So far. So I'm ok with it. Which in part may mean I have an intersex condition I still am partially male at least therefore I don't want that to affect my puberty. I haven't had a masculine puberty only thing masculine that's ive experience was height. Other than that have all been subtle feminine characteristics or eunuchoidal.
I'm not attracted to men but that's what they would think they already suspect it anyhow I don't want to add to that.
Intersex is something diffrent than what you think.
and Gender Disphoria can still kick in before puberty with some.
(14-12-2014, 04:55 PM)EvaMarie Wrote: Hi, you will need to see a psych eventually to get a proper "diagnosis"...
An orchieoctomy (castration) obviously comes to mind as "what would work" :P You need to eliminate testosterone...
If your really serious thats what you will need to accomplish with drugs at first and you can do that yourself but you really do also need a competent doctor to work with you too...
Im assuming your in the USA??? Spironolactone and Estrogen in an effective dosage work very well together to feminize and shut down your testis... You can get them without a prescription but its not cheap, unfortunately doctors arent cheap either... Id say look around your area for TG support groups and Im sure you will find some help there....
You will need "chemical castration" to avoid male puberty and estrogen to replace T and maintain good health... Id think at your age feminization will be easy....
Doctors for good reason need to know your OK with living as female in all aspects before they will do the surgeries that are permanent...
Im not real happy with all the hoops they make me jump through but I can see the reason why they are there I guess:rolleyes:
I cant help much with your parents but I can say that you might be surprised at just how accepting and understanding they can be once they know your serious;)