[Sofia Bunny]

So as the title suggests I am a bit perturbed and peeved at the moment. Due to recent events I will be taking a leave of absence from posting on BN. I am not sure for how long, I guess we will just have to wait and see.

So what brought this on? The catalyst being that without any notification one of my posts, "If you could, would you. If you can, do you?", was moved to this brand new obscure section on BN and was pretty much flagged adult oriented.

Now granted it had taken a much darker turn than what I had intended it to be, and if I had been asked I probably would not have minded that it got deleted. Instead my post was moved without my knowledge. I had to do a search to find what had happened to my post.

Now while the post had gone a bit vulgar for my tastes, I don't believe it was as bad as some posts I had seen in the past. I was going to say something, but I figured to each their own. I was just not going to participate on the direction it had gone.

If my post was going to be deemed as adult oriented, then what's next? All the picture posts? I mean come on, breasts are breasts, and some of the bio males on here have pretty feminine looking breasts. What of the bio female pictures, are those going to be moved too? Those are pretty adult oriented pictures. Perhaps then posting progress pictures will be banned or randomly moved because someone has deemed them too inappropriate.

There's a right way and a wrong way to do things, and feel the approach taken here was the wrong way. I feel like I've been singled out and was made the example. Was it deserved? That's a matter of opinion, and everyone's opinion differs. Perhaps a poll should have been cast asking the members here if anyone thought we needed a new adult section. Who knows, maybe I am blowing this way out of proportion, perhaps I am taking it too personal. Oh well.

So I bid most everyone on here a fond farewell. I appreciate all the support and comments that I have received over the past three and a half months. I hope that I will eventually get over this and start to contribute again to this community. If you care to chat with me, I am almost always signed into GDchat. I usually try to respond if someone says hello in the room, unless I am asleep or busy at work.

[MysticDwagon]

that really bites F&I, youve been kind of one of my inspirations here on getting things worked out and going. always keep you in the back of my mind when i post and stuff.

i have no clue what post got messed with, but after reading tons of your other ones, i cant see it being "adult oriented" from you. i have no idea what GDchat is, and it saddens me to see you have to take an undetermined break from here. but just keep to your goals, regardless of board activity, i.e. be true to yourself and keep your eye on your prize with NBE. if or when you feel you can come back, im sure i will still be here, either still working towards my goals, or helping others(as you do) reach thiers.

[Man2breasts]

I can understand your point of view on this matter Fire and Ice.
Surely by the "nature of this site" it surely must be adult based membership.
Maybe a change in the application sign up, putting a warning that adult based pictures and posts maybe visible, and have a tick box declaring you as a prospective member are over 18 years old... I feel this would negate the need to "Hide" posts .
On what is a site about Breast enlargement and gender issues. With pictures and posts on a large variety of subjects.
This being said, I still love this site and members, as it offers a wealth of knowledge.

[SarahSchilling]

The OP of the thread is specifically about sucking and licking your own nipples.

There are WAY too many subforums here imo, but moving your thread to the adult section doesn't seem some grand injustice to me.

Lotus just made another superfluous sub forum. Something has to go in there now! That's really all it is.

[Scotti]

Never even realized there was an "Adults Only" section until now....

[sfem]

I am surprised that people think pictures of breasts are no different from discussion of sex acts, no matter how mild the acts.

[bryony]

So as the title suggests I am a bit perturbed and peeved at the moment. Due to recent events I will be taking a leave of absence from posting on BN. I am not sure for how long, I guess we will just have to wait and see.

So what brought this on? The catalyst being that without any notification one of my posts, "If you could, would you. If you can, do you?", was moved to this brand new obscure section on BN and was pretty much flagged adult oriented.

Now granted it had taken a much darker turn than what I had intended it to be, and if I had been asked I probably would not have minded that it got deleted. Instead my post was moved without my knowledge. I had to do a search to find what had happened to my post.

Now while the post had gone a bit vulgar for my tastes, I don't believe it was as bad as some posts I had seen in the past. I was going to say something, but I figured to each their own. I was just not going to participate on the direction it had gone.

If my post was going to be deemed as adult oriented, then what's next? All the picture posts? I mean come on, breasts are breasts, and some of the bio males on here have pretty feminine looking breasts. What of the bio female pictures, are those going to be moved too? Those are pretty adult oriented pictures. Perhaps then posting progress pictures will be banned or randomly moved because someone has deemed them too inappropriate.

There's a right way and a wrong way to do things, and feel the approach taken here was the wrong way. I feel like I've been singled out and was made the example. Was it deserved? That's a matter of opinion, and everyone's opinion differs. Perhaps a poll should have been cast asking the members here if anyone thought we needed a new adult section. Who knows, maybe I am blowing this way out of proportion, perhaps I am taking it too personal. Oh well.

So I bid most everyone on here a fond farewell. I appreciate all the support and comments that I have received over the past three and a half months. I hope that I will eventually get over this and start to contribute again to this community. If you care to chat with me, I am almost always signed into GDchat. I usually try to respond if someone says hello in the room, unless I am asleep or busy at work.

You can't go just as I've come back!

I suspect it was the discussion about auto-fellatio that got it moved. Having said that, I don't know if providing information about how to grow breasts to under-18 boys is such a good idea... if they have that level of dysphoria they ought to be talking to their folks about it.

B.

[VickyA]

I am surprised that people can't see any difference between something which is on topic for the forum (breasts) and something which is off topic for the forum (sex acts).

Most forums like to put off topic material in its own section or sections, so moving that thread doesn't strike me as anything very dramatic.

[bryony]

I am surprised that people can't see any difference between something which is on topic for the forum (breasts) and something which is off topic for the forum (sex acts).

Most forums like to put off topic material in its own section or sections, so moving that thread doesn't strike me as anything very dramatic.

Although, if taking phytoestrogens cause a radical difference in the type of sex that you can experience, e.g. a female-type climax through different erogenous zones, and it is described in a "clinical" way, that is fair comment. (I'd be a hypocrite to say otherwise!)

B.

[elainecd]

Whoa F&I....wait a minute....so this is voluntary?
Calm down and think it through....is it really worth isolating yourself from all the folks here?
Prolly not....
even though I don't quite understand it myself, ask the mod to explain and just carry on Hun'

Heck I didn't know we had an "adult" section either.....I thought the whole place was adults and everyone was just being nice.

After all.....men growing breasts and fully transitioning to fem is a pretty "adult" subject.

please stay, have a mimosa...it's sunday morning and I lost an hour somewhere......anyone seen it?