(29-04-2015, 12:09 AM)SarahSchilling Wrote:(28-04-2015, 09:53 PM)Lotus Wrote:(28-04-2015, 07:20 PM)TibetanPrincess Wrote: As for this thread being "hijacked," think again Lotus.
Do you really think it's fair for Hurricane to only hear from those like yourself???
It doesn't really help him. He needs perspective from all corners.
Super, let's tell him that he's selfish and unnecessary, oh, I almost forgot, go ahead and get divorced, that's great life advice, very inspiring. How can I possibly top that perspective.
Lmao, tibetan's and your exchanges are the only entertaining part of this forum anymore for me.
Thank you.
(26-05-2015, 11:52 PM)bryony Wrote:(29-04-2015, 12:09 AM)SarahSchilling Wrote:(28-04-2015, 09:53 PM)Lotus Wrote:(28-04-2015, 07:20 PM)TibetanPrincess Wrote: As for this thread being "hijacked," think again Lotus.
Do you really think it's fair for Hurricane to only hear from those like yourself???
It doesn't really help him. He needs perspective from all corners.
Super, let's tell him that he's selfish and unnecessary, oh, I almost forgot, go ahead and get divorced, that's great life advice, very inspiring. How can I possibly top that perspective.
Lmao, tibetan's and your exchanges are the only entertaining part of this forum anymore for me.
Thank you.
In that case, I feel like I've failed, Sarah!
B.
(26-05-2015, 10:05 PM)Lotus Wrote:(26-05-2015, 07:46 PM)EvaMarie Wrote: Lotus you keep talking about BDSM and Mistress's and Sadists, now your speaking MY language but I wont go into that too far here![]()
TBP and a strap on and forced fem and bronze balls hanging from the pick ups hitch receiver ??? LOL This IS the most interesting and entertaining thread here
Well what can I say, my psychic gut says this tired old argument is BS, like her opinion matters?, gimme a break, if anybody should move on it should be her and her spam. She spreads her hate and disgust for the genetic male, (in the genetic male section).
(27-05-2015, 03:16 AM)echapman Wrote: I think what bothers me is the erasure of gender queer and gender fluid people... As if they're just being selfish or something by not choosing a gender. Gender queer and non-binary is just a legitimate identity as any. They are actually under the umbrella of "trans".
It's kind of like being bisexual in the lgbt community. My sexuality is often fetishized ("so does that mean you wanna threesome?" Said every guy ever) and my sexual identity is usually chalked up to a phase. When I open up about it I get a lot of "oh you're married now" as if that part of me magically dissappeared.
I'm rambling here and I think I missed part of the conversation, but I guess what I'm saying is that this "in betweeners"... Which I'm starting to hate that term, because it seems to become more of derogatory term as this thread progresses.... They're just as valid in their identities as us cis people and our trans friends are.
We may not understand why people want breasts and a penis, but that's not for us to judge on.
(27-05-2015, 02:53 AM)EvaMarie Wrote: The very nature of this forum no matter who you are implies non judgmental support for those who for whatever reason wish to deviate from the norm as far as gender goes...
(27-05-2015, 03:16 AM)echapman Wrote: I'm rambling here and I think I missed part of the conversation, but I guess what I'm saying is that this "in betweeners"... Which I'm starting to hate that term, because it seems to become more of derogatory term as this thread progresses.... They're just as valid in their identities as us cis people and our trans friends are.
We may not understand why people want breasts and a penis, but that's not for us to judge on.
(27-05-2015, 04:52 AM)Lotus Wrote:(27-05-2015, 02:53 AM)EvaMarie Wrote: The very nature of this forum no matter who you are implies non judgmental support for those who for whatever reason wish to deviate from the norm as far as gender goes...
(27-05-2015, 03:16 AM)echapman Wrote: I'm rambling here and I think I missed part of the conversation, but I guess what I'm saying is that this "in betweeners"... Which I'm starting to hate that term, because it seems to become more of derogatory term as this thread progresses.... They're just as valid in their identities as us cis people and our trans friends are.
We may not understand why people want breasts and a penis, but that's not for us to judge on.
I couldn't agree more, and thank you both for stating that, every group is valid here, time to move forward.
(27-05-2015, 12:14 AM)SarahSchilling Wrote:(26-05-2015, 11:52 PM)bryony Wrote:(29-04-2015, 12:09 AM)SarahSchilling Wrote:(28-04-2015, 09:53 PM)Lotus Wrote:(28-04-2015, 07:20 PM)TibetanPrincess Wrote: As for this thread being "hijacked," think again Lotus.
Do you really think it's fair for Hurricane to only hear from those like yourself???
It doesn't really help him. He needs perspective from all corners.
Super, let's tell him that he's selfish and unnecessary, oh, I almost forgot, go ahead and get divorced, that's great life advice, very inspiring. How can I possibly top that perspective.
Lmao, tibetan's and your exchanges are the only entertaining part of this forum anymore for me.
Thank you.
In that case, I feel like I've failed, Sarah!
B.
You don't post much. Anyways, to be fair I was exaggerating a bit
(27-05-2015, 04:35 AM)TibetanPrincess Wrote: I think you missed it. Here's an example scenario, a straight male being in a hetero relationship, not disclosing all of who he is. Then when he secretly goes on his feminizing journey and later comes out to his SO, hoping they will accept it. Its selfish behavior and entitlement, that is what I'm talking about.