Hey Cheryl, I understand the way you feel.
I don't have impressive boobs, the are a small B and so I don't get the wavering eye syndrome very often. But at one point in my life I was wearing a water bra which adds another cup and every time I wore a particular tight camisole shirt I would get rather impressive (but not crazy) cleavage, and I'd catch some guys looking at them time to time while we were talking and I was surprised to find how much it irritated me. I'm wanting bigger boobs this whole time and actually pull of the illusion and now I don't like the attention. I think it's just the obviousness of it..we are talking face to face then you drop you eyes down to my boobs to remind me that your not just thinking about our conversation - mildly aggravating.
I realize that I want bigger boobs to be more confident about my body image, to fit clothes better and to have a little more for my boyfriend and myself (

) to play with during fun time. I get it that thats how guys work and I try not to hold it against them, just didn't like it done right to my face as it does make one feel like a bit of an object.
I've long since thrown out my waterbra and even if I were to score bigger boobs I'd be more modest about the cleavage. I understand some women want to be looked at sexually by strangers and random men, I'm just not one of them.