Hi Calmly.
You know, I had a whole big crisis of consciousness last week. What I would say is that I have almost stopped trying to figure out others. And I think that sometimes, people just say the exact wrong seeming things when we are most vulnerable. If we are all connected, maybe we can reason that this might happen because people responding in relation to what we are feeling- without even knowing it.
Last week when I was really hurting, my ultra squishy friend was just not up to saying something that I could handle. And I think she surprised herself. I actually ended up feeling bad that she felt so bad about acting sort of unsympathetic in my time of distress. Haha. What a silly circle of events we humans find ourselves in.
Along with spending less time trying to figure people out and spending more time being my, of course, (I am learning to think more positively, I am! I am! I am me and me is fabulous!) fabulous self, I have ended up feeling less insecure than I used to in some case and also less inclined to worry or offend myself into a tizzy.
I also try to remember that for all the nonsense I have swirling around in my head, I haven't been successful as my ego was pretending it could be at playing psychic friends. Others, like I, have their own boulders to role up a hill. And they may be trying to read us as we try to read them. I can say that my mind has expanded from reading this thread. I, for example, have been very inspired by the bio-males who talk about their transitions, with the support of their DWs. Well, I think that is sweet. I don't know how my mind would react to the same scenario, though.
I have even tried to address my commitment to NBE with people close to me and it didn't always go like what I had hoped. The mind is a strange thing. I also find that things I thought were fine in the past, are not so fine or vice versa. Ya know? Mental processing, for all that we know about it, is often unpredictable. But, I as far as what I have studied, holding a higher vibration of positivity seems to beneficially enhance most situations. Maybe, focusing more on that vibration or love and support that you have so far received and mentally allowing your heart to expand the range of that, will sort of open and smooth the psychic channels more in order that things work out more smoothly in your world, there. From all over as I study these things, the advice seems to be on expanding and allowing to expand what is already good. Even though your wife, yourself, or those others may be working out some things in their thoughts and feelings, I think that you have a good base of good and enrichment of that good! May you and yours be blessed for the best and highest good.
This post was last modified: 04-10-2015, 07:46 AM by charrr.