I've no desire to ever present as a woman. Dad, Grandpa and Brother are all titles that suit me fine. But I do wish for a more feminine figure. I decided that I wasn't going to start PM again. This time I would be medically supervised and have been pondering starting HRT. In preparation for this possibility I decided to start presenting daily in all activities with breasts. Since I recently lost over 100lbs I decided to take advantage of this situation and started wearing bras with a silicone enhancer inserted which shows as a full 38A.
So as I've been buying better fitting shirts things have been showing more. A couple of weeks ago my wife bought me a couple of size medium polo shirts on sale. The last time I wore medium shirts was in high school. This is definitely a big change from the XL shirts I often still wear and some of the large's that I bought since. But if I plan on going on HRT it is best to find out now if presenting as a male with breasts is a problem for me. I have worn those shirts to work a few times now. The hardest part is the shift change when we often exchange info and greetings in a circle. I stand tall and just converse as normal and even with the shirt not tucked in and pulled tight in those shirts it is impossible for anyone to miss the pronounced curves yet credit to my coworkers no one even reacts.
Almost no one. One of our younger workers had her boyfriend pick her up the other day and we were discussing where they could go at 10pm for a bite to eat. The young man did a double take before he decided to bring his eyes back up and join the conversation.
So it has been almost 2 months (24/7 except for sleeping) presenting with more curves then I should have and so far so good. I have 16 more pounds to lose before I get down to a nice BMI of 21.5 and start HRT. I told my wife I'll start HRT most likely the second week of January or the first day of spring. She has lost about 80 lbs and once she gets down to a similar BMI I told her we will schedule a mommy makeover into the budget so she can get the tummy tuck from 3 C-sections and all of the loose skin gone and have breast lifts to get her breasts back under control. It is all part of our retirement plan.