[Lovelybreasts86]

Trying to slowly transition into wear panties full time but trying to covience the wife to let me but maybe introducing them slowly like I have started wearing bikini briefs now hoping that the slow transition won't be so hard on her and maybe she will accept it doing it this way. What do y'all think ?

[WendyA]

I used to cycle between wearing panties and conventional male briefs. About 16 years ago I grew frustrated with alternating and decided it was easier to simply toss all of my male briefs and accept that I felt better wearing panties. I don't recall this being a discussion point in my marriage. My wife doesn't care what kind of underwear I choose to wear.

[Lovelybreasts86]

My wife is very sensitive to all of this, so for me too try anything new I have too take it very slow sucks but what else can I do ?

[Scotti]

My wife knew from early on in our relationship about me liking to wear panties. I went full time almost two years ago when we were practicing chastity and she had complete control over me sexually.

So perhaps mix in some other factors in the decision to wear panties???

[Lovelybreasts86]

I tried suggesting chastity and was totally shot down so I'm really in bad spot

[jamiemason]

Having a vanilla partner is difficult. There is a real possibility she won't accept your desires no matter what avenue you try. Be careful though, purging or hiding desires can be just as difficult, which may cause more stress or damage..

Curious, why did she dismiss chastity?

[Ethereal]

Threads like this sure do make me happy that I chose to remain single over the years. Sure it gets lonely but I also don't check with anyone else on what I can do and what I couldn't do. Hell, even if I was married and she didn't like it ... well, she would get over it or get out so it's probably a good thing I'm single lol. I just can't do the submissive thing.

Sorry, no advice for you as I wouldn't put myself in the situation. I just wanted to rant for a moment .

[WendyA]

Threads like this sure do make me happy that I chose to remain single over the years. Sure it gets lonely but I also don't check with anyone else on what I can do and what I couldn't do.

There is no doubt that marriage is a partnership which requires the two partners to clearly communicate, which isn't the same as asking permission to do something. One day you may come to realize this.

Hell, even if I was married and she didn't like it ... well, she would get over it or get out so it's probably a good thing I'm single lol. I just can't do the submissive thing.

I'm unsure how being married equates to "I just can't do the submissive thing." Marriage is much more than the games between husband and wife.

I've been married over 30 years and there aren't many surprises anymore. A few months back I said I had been having trouble sleeping and I had to clear the air. That a few years back I took supplements to try and increase my breast size. I told her I felt the need to pursue it again, but that I thought it would be best (safer) this time to do it under a doctors guidance, meaning HRT. I said I don't plan on pulling a Caitlyn Jenner and switch genders, but I did desired breasts. She just said of course you do and she didn't understand why I lost any sleep over this. Like it wasn't a surprise only a matter of time.

I had also just loss a 100 lbs so I decided to wear a bra when not sleeping with small inserts (about a A cup) and see how it goes presenting as a male with small breasts. About this time she bought me some smaller shirts (size medium) since most of mine were still size XLT. I figured if asked I could write off the presentation to gynecomastia from the previous weight, which just started showing because of the smaller shirts. After wearing a bra consistently (whenever not sleeping) I came to the conclusion no thought it was gynecomastia, no one wanted to know why and ultimately that no one cared if I had breasts or not. Since presenting as a male with small breasts is acceptable I set up an appointment for HRT on the 28th of November. We'll see how things go then.

All I'm saying is marriage can be amazing.

[Lovelybreasts86]

Soon as I suggested it she instantly ask about my sexual preference, she a very plain Jane and not into anything like that which really really sucks

[Lovelybreasts86]

Here's my next question what type of panties r good to buy?