(09-06-2017, 04:10 PM)julieTG Wrote: Who of us here can still actually pass as a Man
Are the girls difficult or painful to hide ?
Can you switch easily Man to Woman ?
Do you just present as Andro ?
Do you now live as a Woman mostly but say for official functions or family go to back to Male ?
There are a few girls here now I am keen too see the answers too
Hugs
Julie
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(09-06-2017, 04:32 PM)stefanie_s Wrote:(09-06-2017, 04:10 PM)julieTG Wrote: Who of us here can still actually pass as a Man
Are the girls difficult or painful to hide ?
Can you switch easily Man to Woman ?
Do you just present as Andro ?
Do you now live as a Woman mostly but say for official functions or family go to back to Male ?
There are a few girls here now I am keen too see the answers too
Hugs
Julie
x
Even in drab mode I get Ma'amed a lot unless I'm wearing a plaid shirt. Plaid hides the girls better. The girl that cuts my hair has started giving me a more feminine hair cut without me asking.
(09-06-2017, 04:10 PM)julieTG Wrote: Who of us here can still actually pass as a Man
Me! My long hair is my only visible question mark, but I keep it in a pony tail most times anyway. Not that I have any desire to present as male.
Are the girls difficult or painful to hide ?
No. Just a large shirt and they are gone. Other times when they show I can blame it on extra weight and age.
Can you switch easily Man to Woman ?
Yes, When the situation calls for it Mr comes to the front, when life is relaxed Ms is always there.
Do you just present as Andro ?
It could be. Most of my attire is womens clothes, jeans tops etc. So i guess thats andro.
Do you now live as a Woman mostly but say for official functions or family go to back to Male ?
Hmmm, I live mostly as a woman, but I cross dress to male clothes when the task requires it. Often I will wear my bra under boy clothes, just to make me feel comfy. By tasks I mean something that gets me dirty, greasy, sweaty. I hate to ruin my pretty things.
Hugs
Julie Bobbi
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(09-06-2017, 10:14 PM)polymorphis Wrote: Hi Julie!
Although your questions seem straightforward, under closer inspection they are not so easy to answer, because I am not able to tell what other people around me think. But I'll try to answer your questions as good as I can.
Q: Who of us here can still actually pass as a Man?
I still pass as a man. And not only that I pass, but I am consistently gendered as a male. I am not being addressed as female. Sometimes I have feeling like some people are staring at me and giving me the second and third look, but it can be just my imagination. To be honest I would like to be gendered as a woman and this is something I wait for before I try to consciously present as a female outside, but it is not happening.
Q: Are the girls difficult or painful to hide ?
Well, if I consider strangers, no one is staring at my chest. If I consider acquaintances, no one is commenting. Therefore I think *they* are easy to hide.
Q: Can you switch easily Man to Woman ?
At home and in front of some family members I am basically behaving as a woman. But outside I am presenting exclusively as a man. Although I have to admit that my mannerism and behavior patterns are more and more feminine. At this point, "switching" is not a problem.
Q: Do you just present as Andro ?
I would like to, but it is not so easy. I think that achieving androgynous look for AFAB people is easier than for AMAB.
Q: Do you now live as a Woman mostly but say for official functions or family go to back to Male ?
With the exception of secrecy of my home, my gender therapist and support group I present as a male. And I am not able to find a courage to do otherwise :-( .
E.
PS: Sofia! I am glad to see you back. I've missed you...
Try walking with one foot in front of the other as if you are walking a line down the middle of the street. It's harder than you think if you are a man. Once you master that, you will always be noticed as a woman.