This really grinds my gears seeing how the post (not by me) was downvoted

, but anyway......this post on Reddit was asking about that: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/4g7ibq/hrt_without_transition_life_as_a_man_with_boobs/
The main reason I'm mentioning it is there was a comment by a 67 year old on HRT but not transitioning: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/4g7ibq/hrt_without_transition_life_as_a_man_with_boobs/d2fd42u/
According to that person:
Quote:I have absolutely no problems dating - in fact - I have women calling me for dates - I've told a few about my "transgender" path (is it really "transgender" if I'm not making the full transition to present female?) and rather than this issue pushing them away it has drawn them in. And drawn them in in a big way!!!
This certainly is refreshing after hearing about so many transphobic lesbians.
I'm curious about this in terms of how soon you disclose your boobage. Do you wait until things get intimate and then "surprise!" or tell them earlier. Or tell them it's just gyno and don't tell them unless you're in a relationship?