(15-04-2018, 11:08 PM)VergeOfDiscovery Wrote: I feel I'm finding boy clothes more and more boring each and every day
then stop wearing them!
seriously, I`m not being facetious here, just don`t wear boys clothes any longer.
When I started transitioning, the Done thing was to get your appointment at the Gender identity clinic (GIC) after being refered by your GP, have an interviev / psyche assesment, and be told to wear Womens clothes for a year before they`ll consider further treatment (If they beleive you are the gender you say you are). then you go home and dress up for a year with full permission to do so.
This is the Only time you`ll get "Permission" to do this, because the whole thing is Ridiculous! you will NEVER get persmission to wear girls clothes, ever! it`s something you have to take for yourself.
I, like youself, grew tired of "having to" wear boy clothes it was making me very sad, and as such decided for myself that I wasn`t going to wait until a doctor told me to, I just couldn`t wait any longer, so I stopped wearing them all by myself.
it`s a bit like Cake, you don`t have to wait for a special occasion (birthdays, weddings..) to buy and eat one! you can litterally do that ANY TIME YOU WANT! there`s only You stopping you! you`ve become self policing on societies behalf and you have to break those limiting beleifs, they`re no good for you, you`re being Controlled! stop doing that to yourself.
The only reason you need is; "I want to"
So eat that cake and wear that skirt, life is Not a rehearsal! xx