Hi…
I’m a guy…
I have boobies…and I like having ‘em.
I also like being a guy.
I have a penis and very much like using it.
It seems like most of the discussions here center around growing them… transitioning- or not…
Confusion about how to tackle the ever present feeling of wanting to go bigger…
How far one should go… if you can even stop…
Bra sizes…
And/or how to justify our type of body modification…
Presumably- if your in this particular forum- your trying to navigate the possibility- or actuality- of having a nice set of boobies-
BUT keeping the image of a male… staying male functionally…
Wondering how- if- or when you should tell your significant other that it’s something from deep down that’s just soooo hard to put into words- hoping they’ll have some shred of understanding then only to abandon the entire idea together.
As in… ‘ da fuck am I doing?!?!
Having boobies as guy is NOT the worst thing in the world…
It might not be everybody’s cup of tea… but I believe there CAN balance. I drive a semi truck… married for 22 years… 2 teenage boys… close with my Dad & 2 older brothers… nice house… and live a reasonably comfortable life. I’m an honest person- but I don’t share EVERY detail with EVERYONE in my life. Discretion is key… right? Now some may believe that growing- wanting or even thinking about saddling up with a couple of extra pounds of flesh on your chest might be… ummm… A little odd for a guy… but really… for all the guys here…
It’s REAL!
So I say run with it… cuz I do.
With that being said-
My general mantra is…
Use common sense- to find your balance- and maintain.
Meaning… if you want to go the way of the boobie… just go a comfortable speed… you don’t necessarily have to get in the car and mash the gas to the floor… i’m 51. I started wearing panties at 13. Tried on my first bra when I was 22. Hooked ever since (So to speak) I’ve been actively growing my boobies to varying degrease for 11 years now and wear a very comfortable 34DD. Still love having sex with my wife… being a guy… and still maintaining healthy relationships. It would be the same even if I didn’t have boobies or didn’t wear thong underwear. These things make absolutely no difference. Point being-you are your own brand. How- and how much you decided to advertise is where the balance part comes in…
Have you ever straight up looked asked yourself in a mirror…
Actually stared into you own eyes and actually asked yourself…
Just exactly why you want breasts so much? Is an exhibitionist thing? Is it… you want to be accepted? Is it… you want to commiserate with others just like you? Is it… sexual and it just totally gets you off? Maybe all of the above. It’s how much YOU make out of it.
I say Celebrate em’! And you CAN be a guy good too. Wear pretty bras if you want. I do. Personally I absolutely love seeing and feeling my boobs in a well fitting- comfortable bra. I enjoy buying different styles so I can shape my boobs in different ways according to my mood… They’re great for my back and totally helps with the jiggling. They also hold nipple suckers or Jewlery in place for prolactin stimulation. I like adjusting them in my bra during the day. I love rubbing my nipples against my wife’s nipples when we make love… And she loves it too cuz it feels good. I incorporate NBE when I masturbate and have awesome orgasms. I enjoy it all.
And… I’m a guy.
And… THATS OK!
If you have Boobies already… love em cuz now…yer stuck with em- literally…
If you don’t have ‘em- and want ‘em… just don’t go full throttle from the get go… that part you’ll regret. All good things in all good time. Go a comfortable speed and don’t sweat the small stuff.
If you do it right… things will develop gradually and you can modulate whatever masculinity YOU want to be associated with. Slowly make subtle changes in your style.
If it doesn’t feel comfortable in whatever capacity… then slow down or don’t do it all if there’s a solid chance it’ll all go sideways.
If it does… then don’t shoot your wad and regret it. Be happy you shot it! Be a guy with Boobies is what I say! And- it can be done…
Just my 2 cents from this corner of the internet.
If I can figure out how to post a picture… you’ll see what I mean.
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