For me, nothing changed. But I have figured stuff out better than ever.
I thought I was straight, then I thought I was bi, then I figured out I'm pan and also demi. I used to be sex + masturbation + porn obsessed when I was young. It was absolutely sick. Unhealthy, not good for my mental health at all. I used to fuck everything that opened its legs. It was stupid, hollow and empty. The best sex I've had has always been in long relationships and those expeirences have always been almost solely lesbian...
Even my first real deal girlfriend back in day, it was so totally lesbian relationship. In hindsight its all so obvious.
Men disgust me. They're fun to have sex with, but there's a lot of stuff about men that is just plain disgusting. And sex with guys is fun but its one dimensional and boring after a while. Also most men hate me, ghost me, reject me the moment I spill the beans about being trans. I do not stealth date men as that would be scary af. I was also assaulted and kinda "soft" raped year and half ago. Imagine how that made me feel about men? What happened to my cynicism and interest to have anything to do with the pigs.
Right now I'm totally demi and T4T. Semi androgynous trans women are really attractive to me. I mentioned it elsewhere that I have a new girlfriend, I'm going on a date with her this weekend for the first time and I'm so excited. She's adorable and attractive as can be, she's super cute, slim and graceful and she's got the prettiest long legs. I haven't seen many girls with nipples like hers. She's a hottie.
Women win hands down for me in everything. Especially transwomen for mutual understanding and with them I don't need to feel ashamed of my body either.