[notveryinteresting]

Danni

HOW DARE YOU say what you have said, I will report this post, because if you knew what is wrong with this member you would not have said waht you have said becaue it is very serious.

Totally bang out of order. SHOCKING

I'm sorry you feel like that, obviously I'm not party to the information you have, but do what you feel have to do.
Danni

[prostatenipple]

Hello Shannon,

I was that concerned about you, I sent your photograph to my daughter who is a senior nurse, she has a friend who is a consultant in another department, without going into too much detail she has just rang me and said to tell you YOU NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR NOW.

I hope you read this post, because if you dont see the doctor the consequences do not bear thinking about.

Best wishes
Liz

For the other members please do not hijack this thread with pump recomendations because what I have been told this is very serious case

Thank you

I'm extremely concerned that another forum member's privacy is (potentially) being overruled here, with their personal photos being shared.
And the rude treatment of member notveryinteresting in this thread.

[shannon]

Hello Shannon,

I was that concerned about you, I sent your photograph to my daughter who is a senior nurse, she has a friend who is a consultant in another department, without going into too much detail she has just rang me and said to tell you YOU NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR NOW.

I hope you read this post, because if you dont see the doctor the consequences do not bear thinking about.

Best wishes
Liz

For the other members please do not hijack this thread with pump recomendations because what I have been told this is very serious case

Thank you


It has taken me sometime to digest the fact that you choose to show my pictures to someone else without even sending me a private message to as for my permission.
I share images on this forum for the use of those on the forum and not for them to be shared. I thought that would be the norm.
If you have such great concern, get your daughter and friend to join the forum and reply to me directly!

I appreciate your concern, but I am absolutely appalled that you did not consult me first about sharing the images!

I don't care what your response will be and I will not respond further.

[Gabrielle]

I believe it was done out of concern. But if you post your pictures online, expect them to turn up where ever on the internet. You cant stop this, unless it is done via a hyperlink to where the image is hosted. Where you have control, in either taking the photo down, or changing the address of the photo.

[IanW55]

Hello,

I have not posted on this forum for a while due to the abuse from other members, some of the abuse was downright evil, but I feel that I need to send you this publically as I believe this has got twisted and I wish to explain to you and all members my reasons my kindness to humanity.

Firstly I have not posted your picture anywhere, I copied it then sent it to my daughter who then delelted the photo, she showed the image to a consultant specialist in the cancer department who happens to be one of the UK,s leading breast cancer specialist and a personal friend of hers.

You are a human being and from your post's a nice person, I was trying to show the members without saying what was wrong that excessive pumping like I believe yours was, could cause serious damamge, the fact that some members were urging you on was shocking, all I am trying or was trying was to draw attention to the problem.

As for not asking your permission and not sending you a PM, OK possibly i could have done it differently, but I make no appologies for helpng other members, as I say other members were urging you to go further, well that is how it came accross to me, I was shoicked at the vile abuse.

I hope that you did see a doctor and that you have been given the all clear and that there is nothing wrong, as I said you are a human being and I was concerned for your health and the health of others.

As I said I do not post on here anymore because of the abuse, if you have taken offfence at me trying to help you then I am sorry and I wish you well.

Going forward, like i said no longer post on here and never will due to the abuse, I pop in now and again to follow certain members but again will never comment.

Good luck with whatever route you choose.

[prostatenipple]

It likely violates GDPR law (or other laws relating to processing medical information), which could land you (and your daughter) in actual legal trouble, should Shannon want to pursue it.






Rather than opening your post with a sincere apology to Shannon, you place yourself as a victim first and foremost.



And I don't think it's an isolated incident - your response to the user 'notveryinteresting' was really not nice either.







I've reported your post to the admins.

[IanW55]

To All members,

I must say that I am nearly 69 and not totally brilliant where the internet is concerned and posting where rules are concerned I am but a casual user.

I have just had a friend call in to see me (Derek) who is involved with the interenet (wont bore you) I told him about the issues with this post.

He was amused but said I am wrong, he informed me that there is a internet etiquette, especially about posting and where data protection is concerned, even he gets it wrong and went into detail of what I can and cannot do.

He went on to say that any photograph posted on the internet especially in the public domain is free for everyone to see and send to others as they see fit, but where I went wrong this forum is a members restricted area, photos are for members only and should not be posted outside the forum, however members may save them for their own use unless strictly forbidden. Other members have said I should have sought permission, even though my intentions were honourable and meant in good faith.

Even though it was sent to my daughter to assist with a potential medical condition it was wrong, he went on to say the only saving element of this was there is no face to the photo and no name attached to it so that person could not be identified, there is no actual issue where the photo could have caused issues in the public domain not that it entered the public domain.

So may I apologise to those members who have taken offence at my actions even though my actions were meant with good intentions, as Derek said I must stop and think before I post anthing on the internet and ask will this cause offence, obviously it has so I offer my humble apologies to those who have been offended and I assure you it may have been ill advised but no malace was meant.

If Shannon should read this, I meant you and other members no harm it was done to help protect you from harm.

Lesson learnt

Thank you
Liz