(05-05-2024, 01:20 PM)Pooky Wrote: (01-05-2024, 07:31 PM)IndustrialD1amond Wrote: Also does to all the stuff going on in the world, and my transphobic family and mt lifelong friends(i dont want to lose them) and bieng respected in my community after not having one for most of my life plus possible gf now.
PLEASE DON’T REALY ON WHAT I’M ABOUT TO SAY, AS THERE ARE WAY SMARTER PEOPLE ON THIS SITE THAN ME.
After reading your post, there seems to be a lot going on in your life, as well as in your head. Now is the time for some soul searching. Now might be the right time to seek professional advice. My wife and I believe HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY.
When I told my wife about my gender identity problem, I was so brutally honest she has never asks are you sure this is what you want. Instead she said we are going to have a life style change and I 100% support you.
It sounds like you have youth on your side.
Good luck on what ever path you choose!
Pooky
There is a lot going on un my region, we're one of the few places in this County that doesn't have an official pride parade.sad I know, right? Also for me, hormonally transitioning is more for my comfort and happiness first, than living as female, and I've accepted that I may never fully transition, and if I don't im 100% genuinely ok with living as a. Man. some of us have it a lot harder than others depending on area and whether our family and community accept us, no threat of homelessness ect ect. Also social transition is not for every one as it can be nightmarishly difficult and quite a few people detransition socially but not hormonally so to me its not a big deal if i dont fully transition. Also social transition is not entirely out of the question altogether either, As I said I tried to transition once before and it was nightmarishly hard in 2009-2010 its only gotten a lot harder now even though lgbt people are more in the open and it bieng in the media all the time and with the rising far right...also we have no informed consent clinics either. Which sucks, and I wanna try a natural herbal based transiton and nbe first before trying anything stronger. I do have low T if that helps and I want to take advantage of everything I can and maximise my chances and the wealth of info in this site that I can. Such as increasing my breast size via massage and pumps and increasing other methods my igf with antler velvet or msm , and skincare ect ect. But whatever happens, hormonal transition only, while living as a man and never socially transitioning, or going full female or whatever happens. I'm absolutely fine with either. Tbh I kinda like my masculinity a bit I feel connected to it in a way
. Though i do Feel dysphoria about my body though, but probably not extremely dysphoric, which is why I want to do something about it now not later when it becomes unbearable.
Also thankyou, yeah i am kinda young , im in my early 30s and thankyou for wishing me good luck... same to you too darlin
were all on a our own path and no matter what or how we do it we're all valid.
