[Divil]

If I could do the surgeries, I would go for vagina only. I have seen pictures of someone who had a penis and a vagina. I think it was done surgically. To each his own, I feel 100% female myself but health issues and family/job prevent me from getting real HRT and surgery. I use NBE right now and it helps my dysphoria. My future may be different, time will tell.

I have look at some photos and will say that some may have had surgeries, but I know for sure there is a lot of intersex people in the world born with both sex organs I know this to be true as I know 2 people that are full intersex, wish you luck with your HRT watch for blood clots in your legs if you do start HRT as I did it for 3 years and got nowhere other the getting blood clots in my legs I do BO now for the last 2 months and my breast have got a lot more size skin is softer a lot less hair on legs arms face as well as other things going on.
I myself would love to have my ball removed and a vagina put there I like being able to stand up and pee so I would keep the pennis

[OOO]

On HRT, I have been warned about blood clots, my dysphoria is so bad it’s worth the risk.

[Divil]

I hope so my brother died 2 years ago from blood clots he was on warfarin but did not take care of his self he did not eat right would drink and used pot. after I found the clots in my legs, I was put on warfarin been on it for over 6 years now have to get blood work done every 2 to 3 weeks and the cost for the doctor is a lot each time I see her. so far, the BO has not changed my blood work and as I said I can see that breast are getting bigger and I only take 1 pill every other day when I first started on BO I took 1 every day but on the 4th day I was getting bad head pain and leg cramps so I took 1 every 3 days for 2 weeks then 1 every 2 days and now 1 every other day with no head pain or leg cramps my breast was a B+ all most a C cup and now I am a C cup and still growing if I could go back before I did the HRT I would not have done it but I did not know about BO then and none of the doctors told me anything about it

[OOO]

Divil,

Most everyone on this site is playing with fire ? in some way.  We all have to weigh our risk vs. reward.  But it does affect our friends and love ones also.  It’s a fine line that a lot of us choose to walk.  I hope for you and me and everyone else the line stay straight and wide and all of us compete a safe journey.

Pooky

[Divil]

I agree anyone that takes anything to change your body can have problems and I like you hope everyone has a safe journey I have work on changing my body from the time I was 26 years old I know that I wanted to be a girl by the time I was 7 years old love putting on my sister bra and underwear and her dresses when I turn 18 and had my own  home I had a lot of women thing to put on. I say to everyone here please take care on your journey

[D40_NL]

I’m not interested in getting a vagina while keeping my penis for the near future (health concerns, recovery and the fact I may wish to have kids if I fall in love), but when I’m a little older (around 40-50 yo) I would definitely love to go for it, but that’s something for later me.

[thboy]

I have heard of the penis preserving vaginoplasty.  A split scrotum is also not an unheard of procedure.  Each half contains a testicle.  With a vagina added, the split scrotum would function as labia.  Of course the vagina would be in between and the penis would be the clit.  This sounds appealing and I would be interested.

[Jessi]

Theoretically, to have both would be pretty cool.  In the real world?  Vaginal surgery is a roll of the dice whether it's a dream come true, or a person's worst nightmare.  That's not a risk I'd take unless I were so dysphoric I felt I had literally no other choice.

But yeah in a perfect world, I'd want both sets of bits- I'd have to have both sets of bits.  That more fits who I am.

[OOO]

Jessi

I happen to be in that position you’re referring to, and I don’t need people telling me it could be my worst nightmare.  In your hollow head do you have any idea what it’s like to be in a body that was not meant for you.  Obviously you don’t. For human being that were born in the wrong body the chance to be normal is the only hope we have.

Really if you don’t know you shouldn’t comment.

Caylee

I had to edit this because my wife wouldn’t let me tell you what I really think.

[Jessi]

Well, Caylee I was speaking to anyone who might think this was a walk in the park.  Remember there's a wide range of people using this forum all in various states of dysphoria.  

That's not a risk I'd take unless I were so dysphoric I felt I had literally no other choice.

I thought I'd made that clear- I was only speaking for myself... I'm sorry my choice of words upset you.  I felt as if this thread was too glib on the subject- but I could have chosen a gentler approach.  I apologise.  If you remain upset with me, feel free to PM me and we'll avoid hijacking the thread.

For what it's worth, I like you, and want only the best for you, including full transition if that's your destination.