[DruLactin]

"I showed my psychiatrist this in hopes that they would be some kind of expert on this and ultimately proved that they were a very necessary expense."

[prostatenipple]

I was told that Breastnexum is not a fetish site by two posters
in a very rude and unkind way, and that is why I look up what a

Yes, I've seen posts like that, I can just about guess who it was that was rude. Were they also swearing?

There's always going to be some posters that will try to pigeon-hole everyone into a world view that THEY want everyone to follow.
And I think that's not right, but what can we do.

[Heaven's Night]

Are you guys bashing me between the lines? Do you think I'm rude and prude Karen who wants to impose something on you? 

If so, you're mistaken by a mile. I don't want to see horny posting on BN because this is just not the place for that and it messes up the whole reason for the forum to exist if allowed to spread all over the place.

Why is definition of a fetish important? I have bunch of kinks I'm not talking about here, nor rubbing it on peoples faces where its not approproriate. I call that adult behaviour and being nice to others. Not everybody wants to hear about what turns me on and what I do in my bedroom/shover/forest/beach/car whatever.

Also, guys if you want to badmouth me without saying my name, stop being a sissy and confront me head on if you got a problem. I'm not a child, I can discuss and negotiate and call things out as they are. Most of the time I use my limited energy on far more important things than splitting hairs about BN posting, but as it seems to be such a massive issue it needs to be dug up time and again, ok lets talk about it, even though there's nothing to be talked about.

Message should be clear, we post about what makes boobs grow and Eve removed the conflicting "adult" forum. If that doesn't make the stance of regular posters and admin clear, I don't know what does.

Anyway, if I piss you off, don't be a wuss, come talk to me, I'm not scared of adulting a bit even when its not really worth the effort. 

EDIT:
Little something to add while I'm wasting thoughts on this dumb ass matter. I'm not only speaking for myself, this non-fetish-forum sentiment is shared by many regular and elder posters. Not everybody is speaking their mind and I can sure take one for the team as I've done before. I don't understand why is this brought up endlessly when its very obvious where we stand on this dumb fuck topic. xD

[wee2er]

Divil, you are in the right place to help with breast growth /feminisation.

Prostatenipple, I agree it doesn't matter if it is a fetish or not.

My point, which HH makes is the site isn't about fetish, as per why the adult section and over-sexual posts were/are removed.

Simply, keep posts on-point - about the science, the journey and the results.

Happy breast growth and posting

[IanW55]

Well Devil this is a strange thread.

You say that you are 65 well I am 70 and I am getting on in my years and the old grey cells sometimes go walk about and I lose track (oops what was my point ahh yes I remember now)

Why was this thred started in the first place, I cannot see any good reason why it was, IMO something like this does attract attention and more often and not causes more harm than good.

There are some more senior members on here who have helped me a lot and I for one would be lost without them, if you have a problem with a member who you feel has done or said something that offends you, send them a private message.

As for HH she is lovely and not a bitter or hurtful bone in her body, one of the more helpful ones and she has been as well as othere a fountain and valuable source of help.

If you have issue with her do it in private, I noticed that you have 12 threads so you are not new here, please may i ask the question why was this emotive thread started because again I cannot see why because you hav eleft out the basis of your arguement.

Last question, please tell us why you felt you needed to show someone this site, for what was you going to gain from it, we all at some point struugle with our inner self and it is the members on here who will help and guide you.

Love to all
Ian

[Divil]

I was told that Breastnexum is not a fetish site by two posters
in a very rude and unkind way, and that is why I look up what a

Yes, I've seen posts like that, I can just about guess who it was that was rude. Were they also swearing?

There's always going to be some posters that will try to pigeon-hole everyone into a world view that THEY want everyone to follow.
And I think that's not right, but what can we do.

as to the person swearing? (Yes, they did.)

as to (but what can we do?) never be rude or do the same thing back to them and I have not done so. all so
never play that game with anyone as it will never get you anywhere.
as I did not know for sure what a fetish is, I did look at a lot of web sites about what a fetish is and made
the post (what a fetish is by webster Dictionary) for people to make up their own minds about what a fetish is,
as for me I would say in some ways this site is a fetish site for some people as porn sites are fetish sites are
for other people
or people that spend every day online looking for anything to buy like cookie jars hot wheels
cars, bras, shoes, the list would go on forever, are a fetish, as most anything could be a fetish.

[Heaven's Night]

This thread is absolutely dumb and serves zero purpose and I would like to ask Eve to delete it. 

[prostatenipple]

This thread is absolutely dumb and serves zero purpose and I would like to ask Eve to delete it. 

Definitely not. Let's not delete this thread.

People need to talk about it. Not to hide away from it.

[Heaven's Night]

And nothing will change. 

[prostatenipple]

What we need is a well-defined framework that explains what is allowed and what is not.
With actual examples, and the reasons for it being not allowed.

Maybe a committee needs to be formed. Because it's also possible that the rules should not be static, but rather as things change in the future, maybe they should also be amended.

Maybe something like this:

• Closing down threads like these (if someone doesn't like it) is not acceptable.
  
• Swearing at others is not acceptable.
  
• Misandry (and also misogyny) is not acceptable.
  
• Posts with photos clearly intended to cause sexual arousal to be moderated.
  
• No soliciting for photos or sexual stories, for clearly intended sexual arousal purposes.
  

I don't know why there's a particular subset of demographics that visit this forum for help and advice, that is being blocked and turned away, simply because for them, it is actually a fetish.

Surely the remit of this forum is for biological males (which automatically includes mtf trans (*1) ) who are trying to grow breasts? And therefore anyone else that is considering it, as a future step they might or are planning to take.

Biological females trying to grow or increase breasts are covered in our sister forum, Breast Nexus, but are as always welcome.

Caveat *1:
   I don't know what the acceptable term is nowadays, because the whole LGBTQ+ area feels fractured. No one appears to be happy to define one specific overarching term for born males that are {transitioning to, feeling like they are, yet-to-transition to being, already transitioned to being, exploring being} female gender. So.... when I used "mtf trans", I do so with absolutely no offense intended. I just don't know what the accepted term is nowadays. The fact that I have to explain myself, like I am using a lawyer to help me, is a bit silly. The recent UK law ruling from yesterday highlights the very dynamic nature of all this sadly.