Hi Lara,
Please accept this as help not a criticism or having a dig at you for I believe you along with others have been helpful to a lot of us.
IMO you are now coming over as a very angry person, to be honest you are winding up members, they are only trying to help you. You are going to alienate yourself by attacking those who comment on here because they have a different opinion to yours.
I also say that you may be reading things into comments that are not there, I read and to be honest cannot see what is wrong, may I suggest that this is a international site and we all speak different languages so som eof it may get lost in translation.
Ok you like me have had a difficult life and that is the issue how do you deal with it, because you are seeing demons where there are no demons.
May I give you some advcie, I was taught this many years ago, if you are going to comment on what you think you have read, sleep on it, get up the next day and say to yourself do I feel the same way today as I did when i went to bed, if you do then great comment because that was the right decision, if you get up and think you think oh well never mind, then it would have been the wrong decision so there is your answer.
Secondly, write it down and read it back to yourself ,again you may think ouch this will offend then do not post it.
In July 2024 I posted a thread about Mental Health, my journey through my life from being sexually abused to where I am today. If you want read it again, its in the general discussuins tab under mental health, might help.
So step back, if necessary seek help and discuss your issues be it your girlfriend or the medical people.
Take care
Ian