update already.  After work today the wife mentioned it was going to be 103 degrees for the baseball tournament this weekend.  I figured that was my opportunity. I asked her if they made some kind of nipple covers I could wear. The tank tops are so hot. I didn't think I could do it all weekend.  She said they only have band aid kind that would irritate my skin. I asked if they make some sort of silicone reuseable ones. She said I needed to get an ace bandage and wrap my chest.  She said that is what girls with breasts have to do sometimes.  So, I bought an ace bandage today. Going to give that a try.  See if it is better in the heat. I am mostly glad the conversation was restarted.  If it doesn't work out, I am thinking she will help find something for me.

My wife found out about my breast pump and PM, she also found my clothing, and I explained everything, and she accepted it, she just doesn't want me to do this (pump/wear girl clothes) while she's at home.

Hi, If I read you correctly you want to stop your nipples protruding when you are out. Why not try nipple shields what lactating mothers wear, I saw some on Amazon and look good.
Ian

It has been awhile.  shortly after my last post in June my wife bought me runners nipple covers. Little round bandaids.  She said maybe those will help cover my nipples so I don't have to wear the tank tops under my shirts on hot days.  They work pretty well.  They aren't reuseable. I go through a quite a few.  

I bought some silicone nipple pasties.  I like these alot. They are reuseable.  They hide my nipples great. And gives my breasts just a little more roundness.  I can take them off when I am in the yard topless and put them back on when I ready to go out.  

Both of these hide my nipples, but I still feel like my breasts are on full display and need a little support.  The tank tops I wear under my tshirts give that little bit of support and flatten my chest.

This weekend we all went to a family reunion.  everyone spent a lot of time in the pool. Last night when we got home my wife said I was looking good in the pool. I said I was a little self-conscious about everyone seeing my chest.  She said it is fine; and that I was just getting older. She said all the other guys had gained weight and had beer bellies. She said good job keeping my figure.  I said I guess I carry my weight in my chest and not my belly like those guys.