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I want total body feminization
October 12 2009 at 7:31 PM Cool (no login)
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Pls someone help me I want total body feminization and I am wondering if transfemme works and I am 13 by the way pls someone help me what should I do
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Fennel Fairy
(no login) Wait a sec here... October 14 2009, 10:16 PM
You are THIRTEEN???
Please don't try any of this until you are grown up, OK? You see, all the rest of us here has once been 13 too and boy have we made a lot of wrong decisions in our teens... Your body is growing right now and any interference by added hormones or herbs with hormonal effects might endanger your health. Badly. Because even if you are dead sure about this right now, you might feel different at 25 and then there is no turning back. The effects are irreversible. Even though it might suck to hear this... Please wait with these sort of decisions until you are an adult. The future you might think differently and deserves a chance to have a say too. I don't say this to be mean. I just get very worried when someone as young as you decide to do things that will affect the rest of their lives like that. When I was 13 I was convinced that I was too ugly to live. I'm glad I'm a lot older nowadays. :-)
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Fennel
Chissiegirl
(no login) Undertand yourself October 18 2009, 2:46 PM
You do not tell us why you want total feminisation and this is vital for you, if you are to get the best possible outcome for your life ahead. Basicaly there are two possibilities: either you are transgendered or the idea of having a femanised body gives you a thrill. If it is the latter, Fennel Fairy's advice is bang on; if it is the former you need to act fast to get the best possible outcome.
You need to look at your earliest thoughts about how you felt about yourself; did you feel you should have been a girl or ask why you were not born a girl? If you did you are almost certainly transexual. Dutch researchers have found the part of the brain, which controls gender identity and it is physicaly different in men and women. In transexuals it corresponds to a person of the opposite gender. Thus, a transexual person has a very real medical condition, which, if not treated can lead to serious mental health problems.
If it has not already started you are on the cusp of starting puberty and the changes it brings are what will cause the big problems with a succesful transition from male to female, later in life. The good news is that puberty can be prevented or halted, with medication, meaning that you can adopt the role of a girl and be ready at 18 for sex reassignment surgery, without developing any more male characteristcs.
There is a wealth of information on the web and, for an exellent starting point, try Professor Lyn Conway's site; here is a lady who really knows what she is talking about.
If you decide that you are transexual, you need medical help as soon as possible. I realise that this will, almost certainly, mean coming out to your parents, which is why you need to have researched the subject, so you can point them to the information that shows this to be a real medical condition that is best treated now.
With puberty blocked, it might be a good iea to take pueriaria mirificaria, so that you develop alongside the other girls, rather than standing out.
If you are transexual, good luck with your transition, if not take Fennel Fairy' advice
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ericam21381
(no login) My Dreams April 25 2010, 8:21 AM
I was where you were alont time ago and i can give you advise if you truly seek it. my name is @yahoo too email me for advise
October 12 2009 at 7:31 PM Cool (no login)
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Pls someone help me I want total body feminization and I am wondering if transfemme works and I am 13 by the way pls someone help me what should I do
Author Reply
Fennel Fairy
(no login) Wait a sec here... October 14 2009, 10:16 PM
You are THIRTEEN???
Please don't try any of this until you are grown up, OK? You see, all the rest of us here has once been 13 too and boy have we made a lot of wrong decisions in our teens... Your body is growing right now and any interference by added hormones or herbs with hormonal effects might endanger your health. Badly. Because even if you are dead sure about this right now, you might feel different at 25 and then there is no turning back. The effects are irreversible. Even though it might suck to hear this... Please wait with these sort of decisions until you are an adult. The future you might think differently and deserves a chance to have a say too. I don't say this to be mean. I just get very worried when someone as young as you decide to do things that will affect the rest of their lives like that. When I was 13 I was convinced that I was too ugly to live. I'm glad I'm a lot older nowadays. :-)
Hugs
Fennel
Chissiegirl
(no login) Undertand yourself October 18 2009, 2:46 PM
You do not tell us why you want total feminisation and this is vital for you, if you are to get the best possible outcome for your life ahead. Basicaly there are two possibilities: either you are transgendered or the idea of having a femanised body gives you a thrill. If it is the latter, Fennel Fairy's advice is bang on; if it is the former you need to act fast to get the best possible outcome.
You need to look at your earliest thoughts about how you felt about yourself; did you feel you should have been a girl or ask why you were not born a girl? If you did you are almost certainly transexual. Dutch researchers have found the part of the brain, which controls gender identity and it is physicaly different in men and women. In transexuals it corresponds to a person of the opposite gender. Thus, a transexual person has a very real medical condition, which, if not treated can lead to serious mental health problems.
If it has not already started you are on the cusp of starting puberty and the changes it brings are what will cause the big problems with a succesful transition from male to female, later in life. The good news is that puberty can be prevented or halted, with medication, meaning that you can adopt the role of a girl and be ready at 18 for sex reassignment surgery, without developing any more male characteristcs.
There is a wealth of information on the web and, for an exellent starting point, try Professor Lyn Conway's site; here is a lady who really knows what she is talking about.
If you decide that you are transexual, you need medical help as soon as possible. I realise that this will, almost certainly, mean coming out to your parents, which is why you need to have researched the subject, so you can point them to the information that shows this to be a real medical condition that is best treated now.
With puberty blocked, it might be a good iea to take pueriaria mirificaria, so that you develop alongside the other girls, rather than standing out.
If you are transexual, good luck with your transition, if not take Fennel Fairy' advice
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ericam21381
(no login) My Dreams April 25 2010, 8:21 AM
I was where you were alont time ago and i can give you advise if you truly seek it. my name is @yahoo too email me for advise
