20-10-2011, 04:56 AM
(14-10-2011, 07:22 AM)Pansy-Mae Wrote:Thank you.(14-10-2011, 06:32 AM)jay42 Wrote: ... it is good to know that there are others like me here.
Welcome Jay, and yes there are plenty of us 'in the middle' here
(14-10-2011, 08:32 PM)sfem Wrote: It sounds like you have a pretty good handle on your situation and some fairly specific goals, Jay42. Welcome to our group. We are not a substitute for a GP, but perhaps some of our experiences can help you to decide what to be trying. I can't help with the doctor search. But good luck with it.
I just read allot on this forum before I posted and it has been helpful. I found this place about the same time I started my program. I am about to finish out what I have and I think I need something new. I don't feel the physical and emotional effects I did when I first stared. I know that my E levels have gone down quite a bit and I can't help but think that is because it is being used in the breast growth. I liked the emotional effects when I started the program because they helped me think in different ways. I have ordered some PM and will be starting that in 2 weeks. I hope to have the good results that I have heard about here on it.
(14-10-2011, 11:23 PM)chrissie Wrote: Jay,
No tests will look into your mind; only you can decide who and what you are. I can give you horror stories, of those who had control, removed by said medics; me included. To abrogate control, of your own destiny,to others, is a recipie, for disaster; you need support, not medics. I cannot envisage your situation, as I am sure, you cannot envisage mine. However, I am surrounded, by a supportive network, which has allowed me to move on and this is key. With out it, I am sure, I would have hit a mental health crisis; with it, I have flown and reached a level of happines and contentement, that I did not know, was possible.
I am looking into some alternatives to western medicine now and hope to have the alternative I have been looking for soon. I have no plans to turn my life over to the medical establishment because I have seen how the have destroyed people I cared about. Allot has happened in the days since I posted this string and they have served to show me that I am on the right path and will achieve my full potential in this life.
(14-10-2011, 11:32 PM)beverley.rose Wrote: I have joined a local T* group and it is wonderful - truly wonderful. My wife attends as well and we look forward to going. It has been such a help, I really cannot stress just what a difference it makes. Even going to Chrissie's Kitchen and meeting others from a different group was so uplifting. It makes everything so much nicer.
Also, look for opportunities every day. Now that I live mostly en femme I have now made friends - "normal" people who simply accept me as I am - in the oddest places. The local supermarket has a lovely woman who works there and she and I talk every time I am in and in between we exchange emails.
To hell with the doctors. Find people who will accept you and help you and lift you up. It is so wonderful that it makes you want to cry with joy.
Beverley
I have not looked into any T* groups because it seems that they are more about politics than anything else. That might just be because those are the ones that are well known because they are about politics and make noise. Am I wrong in thinking that? It would be nice to find a group to go to that I could talk about these things. I do have a group of friends that are very accepting but I still find this a hard subject to talk about with them.