[julieTG]

I asked a similar question some time ago which proved an excellent thread

Since there are many new girls on here , thought too try It again especially since a number of us seem to be flip flops

So

Now you have your breasts

Do you regret them ?

Are they comforting for you ?

Is it something you simply had to do ?

Would you let them go if you could flick a switch ?

Does your wife partner like them now ?

Anything you woul have done different ?

Would you fight too keep them now or make a stance ?

Look forward too everyone's replies

Julie

[flamesabers]

I asked a similar question some time ago which proved an excellent thread

Since there are many new girls on here , thought too try It again especially since a number of us seem to be flip flops

So

Now you have your breasts

Do you regret them ?

No. Why would I?

Are they comforting for you ?

To an extent. I think the brain rewiring and the bigger picture of what I'm doing is more comforting to me.

Is it something you simply had to do ?

What do you mean? Could you please elaborate?

Would you let them go if you could flick a switch ?

Nope.

Does your wife partner like them now ?

I'm single.

Anything you woul have done different ?

Nothing comes to mind.

Would you fight too keep them now or make a stance ?

Aren't both options the same?

I get the feeling all of my answers are a bit dry.

[julieTG]

Think i helped the thread last time by providing my own answers, but since I am growing again and not yet grown , thought too leave mine till later


Mind you that might not be long at the rates of progress

Julie

[sfem]

I don't regret growing them.
Sometimes they are comforting, sometimes they are a nuisance.
No, I didn't have to do it. I wanted to for a long time, and simply decided to do it.
If you mean I could flick a switch and they'd be gone, no I wouldn't. If you mean I could have them back with the same switch, yes I would. That would be one super neato switch. I might want to be able to do more with such a switch. I don't believe that kind of fantasy question belongs in your list though.
Yes, my wife likes them. Sometimes.
What I might have done different belongs in the fantasy realm with the mythical switch. Who knows what might have been the unexpected and unintended results of doing things differently? I have not changed what I am doing, so what does that say about what I think should be different?
I don't understand the fight question.

[julieTG]

Ok the fight question or make a stance
Would you defend growing them if discovered or
If a partner said no more would you continue ,
Or leave a workplace if someone took a dislike

That sort of angle

Julie

[flamesabers]

Ok the fight question or make a stance
Would you defend growing them if discovered or
If a partner said no more would you continue ,
Or leave a workplace if someone took a dislike

When dealing with strangers and acquaintances, I see little reason to defend, much less disclose my decision to grow breasts. It is rather inconceivable I think to those who have no familiarity with the transgender community of the possibility that I am purposely growing breasts. (I'm not trying to present or pass as a female.) I think the most likely possibility is that the vast majority of people who notice my development assume it's simply an unintentional hormonal imbalance. Short of reading my mind or doing a thorough search of my apartment, how would anyone know differently? If someone at my workplace had a dislike for my breast development, I would either ignore them, file a complaint, or find somewhere else to work. In all honesty, I think my co-workers are too busy, too mature, and not narrow-minded enough for this to become an issue.

As mentioned earlier, I'm single. If/when I get a partner, she'll have to accept them in order for any semblance of a serious relationship to be viable. Even before pursuing NBE, I realized finding someone who is open-minded is of crucial importance. I'm not going to stop NBE, crossdressing or any other gender-bending activities just to conform to expectations about who I should be or how should I act because of my physical sex.

[julieTG]

Excellent flamesabre
We need more of this attitude
Stand up and be counted
After all we are all far mor individual than all

J

[mady]

Awesome response flamesaber , I think a majority of us would
probably feel the same

[AnnieBL]

Here’s my take:

│Since there are many new girls on here , thought too try It again especially since a number of us seem to be flip flops
I’m not certain that I see myself as a flip-flop - a ’tweenie’ is nearer. Can one regard oneself as ‘bi-gendered’ or does that, like bipolar, imply a flip-flop? I think I’m always a bit of both.

│So
│Now you have your breasts
│Do you regret them ?
No way, but they are definitely still a work in progress. I have a nice little pair of titties, but they are still a bit lost and too far separated on my oversized and wrongly shaped rib cage.

│Are they comforting for you ?
Yes, they are the first thing that I have found after very many years of trying that really begins to meet my need to feel at least partly female. Even more comforting though is the feeling of inner peace that PM gives to me.

│Is it something you simply had to do ?
I have felt the compulsion to do something to feel a bit female for much of my adult life, except when I have been able to submerge it by other preoccupations.

│Would you let them go if you could flick a switch ?
There are occasions when it might be convenient to suppress them temporarily, and I used to be a little worried about hiding them if and when they grew. With PM I no longer really care, and I certainly don’t want to lose them. Despite my loss of male function (which had occurred before I ever started on PM), they play an important part in letting me know that I am still a sexual being.

│Does your wife/partner like them now ?
I like your use of the word ‘now’. For quite a time she denied that I was developing anything. And I think that she is a little uncertain still, with possibly some slight reluctance to handle them, and a tendency sometimes to be over rough when she does. But she agrees tht our physical relationship is now much better than it has been for some years, although ‘different’. Our relationship goes back over 50 years, and is far too important to us to take any major risks. But it doesn’t seem that a pair of boobs causes too much of a strain - much less for example than home renovation projects in which our DIY philosophies can clash. Even after 50 years we can still surprise each other sometimes, and obtain new insights and perspectives. She would certainly prefer that I still had my male function, but not unless it was fully effective, which we both now recognize is not really possible We are agreed that anything marginal or inadequate would be much worse than what we still have.

│Anything you would have done different?
If I’d known earlier what I know now, possibly I would have started sooner and not interrupted it with an abortive attempt to recover male function. But what really made it viable was the involuntary and near total and apparently irreversible loss of male function caused by successive pharmaceutical prescriptions (or mis-prescriptions).

│Would you fight to keep them now or make a stance ?
Yes: or rather I would do my utmost to keep the benefits of PM. I agree with Flamesabers' additional post on this issue, although my position is in some ways easier since I am older, retired and fortunate in my marriage, and have indeed been subject to relevant effects from medical treatment.

[sfem]

Ok the fight question or make a stance
Would you defend growing them if discovered or
If a partner said no more would you continue ,
Or leave a workplace if someone took a dislike

If discovered? I don't see how anyone could "discover" my intentions. It's kind of a non-issue. Mine aren't concealable. No-one has ever asked if I did it on purpose. I can't imagine anyone doing that, or that I would be concerned about the opinion of someone who would ask such a thing in a way that made me feel threatened enough to "fight". What kind of people do you spend your time around? If my wife told me she wanted me to do something to reverse what has changed on me, I would consider what options I had to make her happy. Leave the workplace? For someone taking a dislike? My skin isn't that thin. There have always been people in the workplace that weren't what I would call friendly or even considerate. I tend to see that as their problem, not mine. A good friend of mine has the following in his email signature. I think it applies to this question.
"Be yourself. Those that matter don't mind. Those that mind don't matter."