[flamesabers]

If discovered? I don't see how anyone could "discover" my intentions. It's kind of a non-issue. Mine aren't concealable. No-one has ever asked if I did it on purpose. I can't imagine anyone doing that, or that I would be concerned about the opinion of someone who would ask such a thing in a way that made me feel threatened enough to "fight".

I agree. I think the most the average person might glean from talking to me is I'm not bothered about having breasts. I suspect most people would think I'm simply not embarrassed or self-conscious about having a body that doesn't conform to male standards. Some people might think I'm weird, but so what? As sfem mentioned, it's not something I think worth fighting over.

A good friend of mine has the following in his email signature. I think it applies to this question. "Be yourself. Those that matter don't mind. Those that mind don't matter."

Well spoken words I think.

[Lenneth]

I asked a similar question some time ago which proved an excellent thread

Since there are many new girls on here , thought too try It again especially since a number of us seem to be flip flops

So

Now you have your breasts

not "quite" yet but they are well on their way

Do you regret them ?

Not one Bit

Are they comforting for you ?

More than anyone not on a forum like this would ever think.

Is it something you simply had to do ?

Yes

Would you let them go if you could flick a switch ?

No

Does your wife partner like them now ?

Not Applicable

Anything you woul have done different ?

Grown them at a Younger Age

Would you fight too keep them now or make a stance ?

Oh Yes

Look forward too everyone's replies

Julie

[julieTG]

Some very interesting insights here
When I say fight, I did not mean literally fighting more meant as defending them

Julie

[sfem]

They aren't aggressive. They don't get into trouble, so there is no need to defend them. If you mean defend intentionally growing them, that is what we answered. If you are asking if I would engage in a silly debate with a knucklehead about whether they like how I feel about myself, um, no.

[seniorpantees1]

attn: Julie, breasts, yes, Do I regret them, No way also wanted them, Comf ,orting yes, Had to do, No just came. Flick to switch no way, Keep them you bet

[flamesabers]

They aren't aggressive. They don't get into trouble, so there is no need to defend them.

I second this. Mine are well-behaved.

If you mean defend intentionally growing them, that is what we answered. If you are asking if I would engage in a silly debate with a knucklehead about whether they like how I feel about myself, um, no.

I agree. Growing breasts aren't a chip on my shoulder or a hot button for me. I'm doing it for myself. I'm not trying to conduct a public campaign promoting NBE for genetic males to convert the naysayers, nor am I trying to convince others of the rightness of my decision. I think you have to be a bit thick-skinned anytime you make a major decision that is unpopular or goes against social norms. I think this is why the decision to grow breasts shouldn't be made on a whim or impulse. Unless it's something you really want to do, it's probably going to be difficult to shrug off any criticism or ridicule directed your way.

It would be nice if this decision wasn't stigmatized or misunderstood, but I don't think arguing with everyone who expresses disapproval is the way to make such a change. Instead, I think a better method is to provide support and knowledge to males who want to grow breasts. As more and more males who want to grow breasts do so, I think the more likely it is for public opinion to shift in our favor.

[MonikaT]

Maybe I'm reading too much into this question. Maybe it is just worded very poorly. I think the intent behind the whole "fight / defend / take a stance" question is maybe meant within the confines of a relationship. In other words, if your significant other were not supportive or were no longer supportive, would you argue your case for the right or need to have breasts?

I'm too early in the process to answer most of these questions so I'm not responding to most of it, but being single, any woman I meet will be meeting the me who has breasts so they won't be some sort of surprise sprung on her at a later date or a change in the terms of our relationship. They should be a non-issue at that point.