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I HAVE been groped a FEW times, but each was long before any of this girl stuff was going on with me. And they were all in a different means, context and situation, but, in at least the third case, I was a bit resentful, however, if what happened to you, happened to ME, I'd also feel kinda violated! I don't know that I'd be all that pissed about it and I don't think it'd weigh heavily in my mind, but I'm SURE it'd pop into my thoughts from time to time.
The first two gropes that I recall having to deal with were from an older next door neighbor, Norbert Carr. I eventually found out that he had a copy of "Jesus Christ Superstar" and I asked if I could borrow the album. He complied. When I took it back to him shortly after, he told me he had something he wanted to give me but I had to go upstairs to his room with him to get it. (He & his mom lived on the 2nd floor of Mrs. Leech's house.) So, I did. Once we were up there, he showed me a plastic triangular device that he said was a baseball catchers protective cup and then showed me how to wear it, then asked me to try it on. He wanted to give it to me, but I didn't want it and, I don't even WATCH baseball, let alone PLAY it, and, if I did, I CERTAINLY wouldn't want to be the catcher!! Next thing I can recall, we're both lying half naked on his bed and he's playing with MY plonker and asking me to play with his. I wasn't more than 15 at the time, I'd guess he was at least twice my age. I didn't want to be there! But I didn't quite know how to get out of the situation. Eventually it was over and neither of us completed the "task at hand".
Not too very long after that, he got me again!! Decades later, I found out that he also got my little brother (13 or 14) and little sister (11 or 12), too!! During one of my "sessions" with him, he said that he wanted to become a priest!! Later, I told one of my friends about it and he laughed saying that was very appropriate. I didn't know what he meant, then, but, now I do!
Fast forward to late Oct. `04. I went to my best friend's apartment to listen to music with her, but she wasn't home. On the way home, just after dark and on the verge of a lunar eclipse, I had to change buses in town, and, while waiting for the bus (the stop was RIGHT in front of a porno shop!! But that didn't bother me at all.), there was a black couple hanging around and, from what I could see, she was a prostitute, because she propositioned a number of guys driving by. She was short and VERY dumpy, and he was tall and skinny. I can only guess that he was her pimp. After about 20 minutes of waiting for the bus, and watching the eclipse, hardly paying any attention to them at all, she walked past behind me and gave me a slap on my crotch from behind!! Her hand went from my asshole all the way over my balls!! I'm guessing this was her way of trying to entice me to have sex with her. But, I wasn't buying. I didn't exactly like that she did that to me, but, I didn't think that much of it, either. It was like, "Okay, I've been had. It's official." And I just blew it off and continued waiting (bus) and watching (eclipse).
While writing this, I just remembered another such incident. It was probably a short time before the previous incident. We (my band) were playing a gig one night and a friend of the band showed up to take pictures of us, maybe for our third album cover. We're outside in front of the venue and, being very tall and a bit of a clown, when Deena was getting ready to take a picture, I stepped out in front of the rest of the band (all were just over 5" tall) and struck a pose, arms and legs wide open as if to say, "I'M the star and don't worry about the others.", when, my bass player did pretty much the same move as the hooker!! However, in this case, Dana, who is kinda short and quite dumpy, has HUGE tits, and I just thought, she wouldn't like it at ALL if I did that to her OR grabbed her tits! But, I can take a joke and did nothing about it, even though everyone else had a good laugh over it.
- I don't like any of these people, and never have; and the world just keeps making more of them! I've been saddled with a few of these people - and they just never seem to be worth it, in the long run.