Hi, I'm new here though, since I've discovered the site, I've been lurking for the past several days reading posts. I actually didn't think it was possible to grow breasts outside of surgery or a doctor prescribed hormone treatment. All those creams and products sold online I thought were scams. But from all your success stories, (at least some) it must be true! I am sooo jealous of some of your photos.
It seems like everyone I've noticed here either wants to, or is in the processing of, transitioning, or is a guy who wants to have breasts. To be honest, while I don't judge, I don't understand the latter. If you are a guy, why would you want breasts? And some of the processes I've read about here sound like they can permanently change your whole body and mind too. Sounds risky for a fetish and not something you can hide from people. Curious if someone can explain it to me.
Some background about me:
In my 30s and I've enjoyed dressing for as long as I can remember. There are times I've spent days living enfemme but only in the secrecy of my own room (aka I would be a hermit for a few days). After I'd "get it out of my system" and not do it again for days or even months. The temptation would come and go (though can be pretty easy to trigger if I want) but when it comes I might not always be in a position to act on it. Especially now with a wife, kids and the related familial obligations.
The wife knows and tolerates it. Generally she doesn't like it and things were really rocky between us over it early on in our marriage. When I first told her I thought she would leave me and there was a lot of misunderstandings and accusations of my being gay (I'm not at all but while enfemme, I think of myself as bi). She's slowly thawed over time and while she still doesn't like it, we've come to an understanding where 1 night a month, I can go as far as I want to go (within reason - she gets pissed if I remove body hair) and she'll even participate in the fantasy which is pretty great (and without going into 'too much information", sex as a woman is awesome)!!! So I realize I'm really lucky compared to most.
Breasts
I've often fantasized and longed for breasts. They would be awesome! But only when I'm in girl mode. I feel like I have a split personality because when I'm in guy mode I'd be turned off and embarrased to have them. I'd much rather have pecs. It gets confusing and frustrating since a very masculine body is the complete opposite of a feminine one. I want one or the other depending on the day. I can't have both so end up going a bit back and forth. Not sure if anyone else experiences this but would love to know.
I have some questions...
1. I'd totally follow all of your leads if there was a way to NOT make it permanent. I'd love to enjoy the effects for a few months (even if only subtle growth), but then go back to "normal" since I would have to hide them from the general public. The winter months would be a perfect time. And maybe the wife would be okay if it was temporary.
2. Speaking of which, for those of you married or with serious girlfriends, do they know what you are doing? How are they possibly okay with it? My wife would kill me, and I'd say she would have a right to - because I'd be becoming something she didn't sign up for when we married.
3. For those of you with kids, do they know? How do you explain it?
4. After a point, you can't hide your new breasts. Certainly not at a doctor's visit or a even a pool outing. Aren't you embarrassed if you live as a guy?
5. What do you guys do to keep your chest smooth and hair free? Shave? Wax? The hair always seems to grow back quickly and gets all dotty, and red and then black spotted (the hair coming back in) which really must kill the effect visually.
6. If it is not possible to have a temporary effect, what would you recommend if I wanted just subtle growth of the breast area and nipples. Enough for me to enjoy but not enough to be blatant to the rest of the world? I like my nipples getting played with but they are so small! Is there any products that would focus on just this general area without messing up the rest of my body? I don't care if my skin gets a bit softer, but I don't want to lose all my muscle mass or have any mental tricks going on (the last thing I want is some switch in my head going off making me want to transition). Yes, when I'm enfemme, I want nothing more. But then I get it out of my system for a while and I'm fine and like the way I am. And I would never put my family through that. As it is I'm worried I'd want to keep going (you should see what happens when I start to tweeze my eyebrows)!
I live in the US so getting access to products isn't a problem. Seems like Amazon sells a ton but its hard to know what's good or not (half the reviews are obviously fake, and I don't know about the others).
Perhaps people have to choose to be all in or not, but I'm wondering if there was any middle ground here. Would those of you with more experience please advise? Thanks!
It seems like everyone I've noticed here either wants to, or is in the processing of, transitioning, or is a guy who wants to have breasts. To be honest, while I don't judge, I don't understand the latter. If you are a guy, why would you want breasts? And some of the processes I've read about here sound like they can permanently change your whole body and mind too. Sounds risky for a fetish and not something you can hide from people. Curious if someone can explain it to me.
Some background about me:
In my 30s and I've enjoyed dressing for as long as I can remember. There are times I've spent days living enfemme but only in the secrecy of my own room (aka I would be a hermit for a few days). After I'd "get it out of my system" and not do it again for days or even months. The temptation would come and go (though can be pretty easy to trigger if I want) but when it comes I might not always be in a position to act on it. Especially now with a wife, kids and the related familial obligations.
The wife knows and tolerates it. Generally she doesn't like it and things were really rocky between us over it early on in our marriage. When I first told her I thought she would leave me and there was a lot of misunderstandings and accusations of my being gay (I'm not at all but while enfemme, I think of myself as bi). She's slowly thawed over time and while she still doesn't like it, we've come to an understanding where 1 night a month, I can go as far as I want to go (within reason - she gets pissed if I remove body hair) and she'll even participate in the fantasy which is pretty great (and without going into 'too much information", sex as a woman is awesome)!!! So I realize I'm really lucky compared to most.
Breasts
I've often fantasized and longed for breasts. They would be awesome! But only when I'm in girl mode. I feel like I have a split personality because when I'm in guy mode I'd be turned off and embarrased to have them. I'd much rather have pecs. It gets confusing and frustrating since a very masculine body is the complete opposite of a feminine one. I want one or the other depending on the day. I can't have both so end up going a bit back and forth. Not sure if anyone else experiences this but would love to know.
I have some questions...
1. I'd totally follow all of your leads if there was a way to NOT make it permanent. I'd love to enjoy the effects for a few months (even if only subtle growth), but then go back to "normal" since I would have to hide them from the general public. The winter months would be a perfect time. And maybe the wife would be okay if it was temporary.
2. Speaking of which, for those of you married or with serious girlfriends, do they know what you are doing? How are they possibly okay with it? My wife would kill me, and I'd say she would have a right to - because I'd be becoming something she didn't sign up for when we married.
3. For those of you with kids, do they know? How do you explain it?
4. After a point, you can't hide your new breasts. Certainly not at a doctor's visit or a even a pool outing. Aren't you embarrassed if you live as a guy?
5. What do you guys do to keep your chest smooth and hair free? Shave? Wax? The hair always seems to grow back quickly and gets all dotty, and red and then black spotted (the hair coming back in) which really must kill the effect visually.
6. If it is not possible to have a temporary effect, what would you recommend if I wanted just subtle growth of the breast area and nipples. Enough for me to enjoy but not enough to be blatant to the rest of the world? I like my nipples getting played with but they are so small! Is there any products that would focus on just this general area without messing up the rest of my body? I don't care if my skin gets a bit softer, but I don't want to lose all my muscle mass or have any mental tricks going on (the last thing I want is some switch in my head going off making me want to transition). Yes, when I'm enfemme, I want nothing more. But then I get it out of my system for a while and I'm fine and like the way I am. And I would never put my family through that. As it is I'm worried I'd want to keep going (you should see what happens when I start to tweeze my eyebrows)!
I live in the US so getting access to products isn't a problem. Seems like Amazon sells a ton but its hard to know what's good or not (half the reviews are obviously fake, and I don't know about the others).
Perhaps people have to choose to be all in or not, but I'm wondering if there was any middle ground here. Would those of you with more experience please advise? Thanks!
