[wantingmore72]

[undefined=undefined]Lotus, I have nobody on my ignore list. I just avoid the postings of several individuals.[/undefined]

This right here is the way proper adults and people who have tolerance respond to such postings. Last I checked, this was free to join. There is no membership fee, no proprietorship, and no social club. This is a site about growing breasts.
I have read many posts about how people love the herbs because it sexually suppresses them. This in itself is pseudo off topic. Breasts are a sexual image in our society and I dont think anyone is growing these just to breast feed. Sometimes it seems like people would be better off at a sex addicts support site trying to suppress their cravings.
I do feel there should be a sense of moderation in one's post, however, it encompasses a lot of different topics surrounding breasts and their sexual role. Just be tolerant guys. If there is something that offends you so much more than a man growing boobs, move on to another topic. Experiences vary and to judge one over the other is just silly.

[Lotus]

Right on wantingmore,

We tend to stray away from the op, so what's the harm right?, I see both sides of the coin. Are we that rigid we can't share music that motivates us, what's next censorship? Please!....

We can share food ideas, excerise, clothing, but not music???, is this the movie footloose?

[Lotus]

We know the meaning, but it's worth repeating

Intolerance-unwillingness to accept views, beliefs, or behavior that differ from one's own

Synonyms-bigotry, narrow-mindedness

[Lotus]

I've always felt the intolerance since joining from certain members from there lack of response to mine.

I've tried to give praise as often as possible, made apologies numerous times, still nothing, that's cool, I'm ok with that, why I dunno, but generally got the cold shoulder.

I don't expect acceptance, but really, don't beat around the bush, out with it!

Btw, this isn't me ranting.....earlier yes, but not presently

[Lotus]

Haven't we shunned elisaustin enough already,

I miss the input given, let's move on already!

I mean that in a real heartfelt way.

[Lotus]

Ya know, Enough already!

The olive branch is given, the rest is up too you!

[MissC]

Proper grammar or punctuation being used doesn't make one an expert,

That much is true, but it's irrelevant. The ability of the writer to use proper language skills makes him appear more intelligent. The appearance of intelligence makes it easier to spread his ideas to people who value knowledge.

I will tell you, quite honestly, that I do not attach the same weight to poorly written ideas, and neither does anyone else who bothered to learn their mother tongue. That's not going to change, ever.

Shouldn't it be the content rather than the context?, really just get over it!

If your content is loaded with grammatical and spelling errors, written in text speak, and crammed into a large unbroken block of run-on text instead of using paragraphs, I'm not even going to read it. It takes me less than a second to decide when I'm not going to bother trying to read the drivel of people who can't bother to present their ideas in a readable format.

In other words, respect must be earned by the writer. If you're going to disrespect your readers with low-quality writing, don't expect them to take you seriously. It's also self-respect on the part of the writer. You're telling the world, "I'm going to vomit out some crap in your general direction without bothering to spell correctly, because I don't matter and neither do you."

I have refused to patronize businesses because of one spelling error in their advertising -- one because of a misplaced apostrophe. Is that extreme? Perhaps. But it tells me that those people, who want my money, can't be bothered to take a few seconds with a dictionary, or ask a friend, to get their company image right. Why would I trust them with my business?

I am absolutely sick and tired of the notion that the rules and forms of the language we have all agreed to communicate in don't matter.

[Lotus]

I can respect that,

Considering you'll find that happens everywhere, you must be pissed all the time.

[MonikaT]

Ok everyone, how is this any different?


http://breastnexus.com/showthread.php?ti...it+be+nice


Was this labeled porno?, or was this declared it shouldn't be in NBE, or has nothing to do with NBE?

I've posted dream girls as well, but let's be clear!

What's surprising is that the same members who find this offensive are clearly making light of it!, and using innuendo towards it!

Just saying here, what's so different?

I guess for me, the difference is the history of the person posting and what the motivation is. The posts that in recent times seem to offend come from folks who have been somewhat crude and crass from the moment they began posting a few months ago. Let's face it, "tits" just sounds more crude than "boobs" or "boobies." Word choice makes a difference. There's something innocent, child-like, and playful about "boobs." Little children use the word and act as if they are being naughty. "Tits" sounds harsh by comparison. Use it in a sentence. "Show me your tits," sounds like something out of a porno. I'm not sure I've ever heard a natal female use the word. Some B.S. about cracked skin on one's typing fingers and not having to type that one extra letter just sounds like a thin excuse to justify crude behavior. Use a little super glue and move on. Bottom line is the newer members do not have much of a history being a good contributor to the community. Lenneth does.

[Lotus]

Ok,

So I removed everything that could be offensive and over the top, pics, username boobs, so I'm starting over how about you?

Whats important here?, my grammatical errors (yes crappy, which considering I never took up typing until recently it's getting better), or making this work!

L.