[myboobs]

Ok everyone, how is this any different?


http://breastnexus.com/showthread.php?ti...it+be+nice


Was this labeled porno?, or was this declared it shouldn't be in NBE, or has nothing to do with NBE?

I've posted dream girls as well, but let's be clear!

What's surprising is that the same members who find this offensive are clearly making light of it!, and using innuendo towards it!

Just saying here, what's so different?

I guess for me, the difference is the history of the person posting and what the motivation is. The posts that in recent times seem to offend come from folks who have been somewhat crude and crass from the moment they began posting a few months ago. Let's face it, "tits" just sounds more crude than "boobs" or "boobies." Word choice makes a difference. There's something innocent, child-like, and playful about "boobs." Little children use the word and act as if they are being naughty. "Tits" sounds harsh by comparison. Use it in a sentence. "Show me your tits," sounds like something out of a porno. I'm not sure I've ever heard a natal female use the word. Some B.S. about cracked skin on one's typing fingers and not having to type that one extra letter just sounds like a thin excuse to justify crude behavior. Use a little super glue and move on. Bottom line is the newer members do not have much of a history being a good contributor to the community. Lenneth does.

May I say that the forum has laid down any specific rules. As to one's grammer / itelectual / history / lenght etc of posting . SO !! Where are these rules spreading from ?
To be all inclusive one has to accept people from all walks of life .
If it is going to be an exclusive forum than the all rules need to be expressed and accepted by the participant before being let in .
Than if there is a failing of any member , they can be pulled up or thrown out is case of serious breach .

[Lotus]

The point I was trying to make was that post was representing the lust of Kate Upton, and picture was more suggestive than the original pic that caused doodlebugs reaction. In that post comments are made about wanting her body including doodlebug.

I have nothing against Lenneth, he's an excellent contributor, in fact his statement about learning and teaching others has still stuck with me. My apologies Lenneth!

Did you not read it?, it's just a question here not an insult.

[MonikaT]

Ok,

So I removed everything that could be offensive and over the top, pics, username boobs, so I'm starting over how about you?

Whats important here?, my grammatical errors (yes crappy, which considering I never took up typing until recently it's getting better), or making this work!

L.

I never really had a problem with you, and since he didn't name names, I can only assume Doodlebug did. I did notice you removed your avatar which I just assumed were progress photos that you rotated from time to time. Until you just pointed it out, I didn't realize you'd changed your username. If I had major issues with you, I would likely never have responded to this thread. Then again, I don't feel a need to respond to every thread.

[MonikaT]

The point I was trying to make was that post was representing the lust of Kate Upton, and picture was more suggestive than the original pic that caused doodlebugs reaction. In that post comments are made about wanting her body including doodlebug.

I have nothing against Lenneth, he's an excellent contributor, in fact his statement about learning and teaching others has still stuck with me. My apologies Lenneth!

Did you not read it?, it's just a question here not an insult.

I have to admit, I did not go back and read the thread, though I obviously did contribute to the thread at the time. (Like you, I keep undergoing laser treatments in my eyes, but for the ravages of diabetes, and the cataracts in my left eye are bad enough I should have surgery, but my present work schedule makes it difficult to schedule it so I keep putting it off so I don't read as much as I used to.) You're probably right that it is more suggestive than what seems to have offended Doodlebug.

Maybe, in Doodlebug's case, it was just a matter of hitting a tipping point. A little bit here and there was no big deal, but very recently there has been quite a bit of it, and that pushed him to his limits. I honestly have no idea. I've never messaged him to find out, and my only interactions with him have been public ones in this forum. Maybe there are other issues in his personal life that made him overly sensitive. All of this is speculation based on my own personal experiences. I used to watch the news, but I can no longer deal with what passes for news these days. I no longer have the emotional capacity because too much of personal life has fallen apart over the past 30 months.

[Lotus]

As the op I close this thread and wish it removed, hint hint

[Lenneth]

Ok everyone, how is this any different?


http://breastnexus.com/showthread.php?ti...it+be+nice


Was this labeled porno?, or was this declared it shouldn't be in NBE, or has nothing to do with NBE?

I've posted dream girls as well, but let's be clear!

What's surprising is that the same members who find this offensive are clearly making light of it!, and using innuendo towards it!

Just saying here, what's so different?

I guess for me, the difference is the history of the person posting and what the motivation is. The posts that in recent times seem to offend come from folks who have been somewhat crude and crass from the moment they began posting a few months ago. Let's face it, "tits" just sounds more crude than "boobs" or "boobies." Word choice makes a difference. There's something innocent, child-like, and playful about "boobs." Little children use the word and act as if they are being naughty. "Tits" sounds harsh by comparison. Use it in a sentence. "Show me your tits," sounds like something out of a porno. I'm not sure I've ever heard a natal female use the word. Some B.S. about cracked skin on one's typing fingers and not having to type that one extra letter just sounds like a thin excuse to justify crude behavior. Use a little super glue and move on. Bottom line is the newer members do not have much of a history being a good contributor to the community. Lenneth does.

I certainly hope I wasn't the cause of this, the thread linked was not intended to be sexual in any way.

if its offends anyone I will gladly have it removed.

[MonikaT]

Ok everyone, how is this any different?


http://breastnexus.com/showthread.php?ti...it+be+nice


Was this labeled porno?, or was this declared it shouldn't be in NBE, or has nothing to do with NBE?

I've posted dream girls as well, but let's be clear!

What's surprising is that the same members who find this offensive are clearly making light of it!, and using innuendo towards it!

Just saying here, what's so different?

I guess for me, the difference is the history of the person posting and what the motivation is. The posts that in recent times seem to offend come from folks who have been somewhat crude and crass from the moment they began posting a few months ago. Let's face it, "tits" just sounds more crude than "boobs" or "boobies." Word choice makes a difference. There's something innocent, child-like, and playful about "boobs." Little children use the word and act as if they are being naughty. "Tits" sounds harsh by comparison. Use it in a sentence. "Show me your tits," sounds like something out of a porno. I'm not sure I've ever heard a natal female use the word. Some B.S. about cracked skin on one's typing fingers and not having to type that one extra letter just sounds like a thin excuse to justify crude behavior. Use a little super glue and move on. Bottom line is the newer members do not have much of a history being a good contributor to the community. Lenneth does.

I certainly hope I wasn't the cause of this, the thread linked was not intended to be sexual in any way.

if its offends anyone I will gladly have it removed.

Lenneth,

You're fine, and your thread is fine. This thread right here is more about Doodlebug feeling uncomfortable because there was a convergence of several things, no one of which was cause for offense, but in their totality, reached critical mass for at least one person. Lotus was trying to point out that in the past there have been posts of a similar nature, and nobody seemed to complain. Don't worry. It's all good. In Doodlebug's defense, there really did seem to be a change in tone that occurred shortly after a few new folks joined the forum at about the same time. I was content to wait it out because things do tend to reach equilibrium, eventually. Oddly, before this thread was created, several folks I had issues with seemed to have stopped posting in here. Sadly, several valuable contributors also seemed to stop at the same time. Maybe the holidays were a factor.