Lol, Clara! Touche! Ouch!
Was that how you felt? Honestly, if so, I am sorry. That was not my intention. I guess sometimes I may seem more strident than I intend.

Though, actually, I do see a difference myself.

I know you find value in labels, and terminology of this sort, and that is fine.

But for this I don't really see that we are discussing labels. Note I specifically did not ask "are you straight?" or "are you gay?" "Are you bi?" Etc. No labels. Rather, I am asking people to just answer a question about what and whom they find sexually attractive. If someone else wants to they can place labels on the answers, but that isn't what I am after.
I am curious to know how people on this board line up. I confess that I harbor a suspicion, generally speaking, and certainly not pointing fingers at anyone, that not all our members are as truthful with us (and maybe not even with themselves) as they would like to believe.
I believe many bio males, once having succumbed to the delight of feminizing themselves, may harbor, once dressed, fantasies of engaging in sex with a male. I do not doubt in any way, and let me be absolutely clear in that, lest someone be offended, that there are those who, even when fully dressed and totally in heat still find the idea of sex with a male as undesirable, and perhaps repugnant. But given the extreme homophobia that exists in this society, and given that within that culture it is difficult enough for males to come to terms with an impulse to feminize themselves, I suspect that there are those who, though they will finally confess the one, will do so only in the context of denying the other. Does that make sense?
Oh, and before anyone starts howling or getting upset, let me repeat I am not accusing anyone of anything. Nor do I have difficulty taking at face value declarations of this sort by anyone here. And I certainly hope not to offend anyone. Honest.
I would, however, like to encourage some thoughtful discourse in the area, and perhaps some possible honest self analysis.
We OK with that?