Hi Julie,
I have no plans of micromanaging my growth. I'll take whatever I can get.
I don't see pm as a mind control agent. I think the boobie fairy certainly can open up new possibilities for to you choose from, but I don't think there's any deception or loss of volition with brain rewiring. If transitioning is the typical destination for rewiring, I think there would be a lot more of us on this forum transitioning. I think NBE may help some realize how much happier they'll be if they go further and transition. Others I think find NBE is the end of the journey. They like having breasts, but have no desire to transition or see the consequences of transitioning outweighing the benefits.
If you have no desire to transition, I doubt pm is going to change your mind on this. If though you feel uncertain about such a prospect, than maybe as you progress on your NBE journey you may discover transitioning may be very beneficial for you. Ultimately, I doubt the boobie fairy is going to fool you into doing something you don't genuinely want to do.
If it is true pm rewires individual to want to transition, I would probably be a prime candidate. I've been taking pm for over a year, most of which has been on a fairly high dosage. I have no significant other, no kids, and I'm fairly young. However, transitioning hasn't been on my mind. I'm happy with how things have been progressing for me.