[Lotus]

Lotus,

I'm not trying to take sides or defend anyone and I might be misunderstanding your mood, and perhaps I should just remain silent (probably the case) but I think you are not appreciating the diversity of this little community. For example, I LOVE science. I thrive on understanding how things work but you've never seen me post anything scientific at all because I'm too busy and I can't devote the time and brain power to that cause. I have a wife and children and busy job that doesn't afford me the time you, apparently, can spend on research. It's better for me NOT to post anything technical because it I can't glean out the essence of all that gobbledygook - just can't do it. Conversely, I'm very relational. I care about people deeply and crave deep, meaningful relationships. I feel their pain and share their joys and want them to know someone out here cares about them. That's something I rarely, if ever see from you. You, "want to grow boobies!", I have an emotional level problem with my gender. Both of our reasons for being here overlap which makes us a great community - it's not ALL about the research. Again, maybe I'm misunderstanding your demeanor (I'm usually very good detecting moods, at least in person) but I get the impression you want everyone to be more like you (technical / research). That just isn't going to happen. Sorry. Keep up the great work you do but try to appreciate the vast array of different people here. We all have something to offer or something to learn. ...Except for the trolls I guess.

Making the BN universe whole again!

Thanks kari,

I like the cooler heads approach here (thanks). Please let me start by saying how special BN is (and not just for me). To be part on something special like BN is in fact an honor. We have so many choices here, and the credit goes to our site administrator Eve, who's done more to accommodate us than most admin's would do.

If anybody appreciates the diversity here it's me!, it's probably a good time to point out that the Gender Section, Bio-Male Personal Program Section, Herbal FAQ Section, Endocrine Section (Monica hatched the Bio-Male FAQ) and more recently the (which Eve created) the Other Appearance Section. She is also considering a Self Breast Exam Section, all of which I voluntarily moderate (with the exception of the lastest addition and gender section). Yup, guilty-

This is not an attempt at shameless self promotion. Instead, I might add it's been my truly privilege to contribute and maintain those sections.

Anyways, yesterday's unfortunate chain of events was clearly in access. Specifically with Clara, we've made amends behind the scenes. I need to make amends to all of you for making it public. So I offer my sincerest apologies to all, and specially to Clara and Eve.

And to Sara, hope the headache is mended.

I think why not add a section to methods with pueraria, massage and pumping rather than separate the bio male section about it because in a way women sometimes try birth control can be used as nbe so that's a synthetic section wouldn't split bio males like your worrying but it would be useful to bio women too to have more info about it in methods I am sure I see women use estrogel and synthetic progesterone creams too without knowing if there are any risks so a section of information and risks of all kinds of synthetics would be very useful information to add to this forum. 

This is a great idea!  If Eve WAS to add a sub forum for pharmaceutical, synthetic breast enlargement, the place to put it would be on the first page with the other methods:
Herbal
Message
Pumping
PM
Glandular
Magnetic
Hypnosis
SYNTHETIC HRT
  > within THAT sub forum, two sections.  One for male and one for female




Excellent idea bmthx!

As we continue to grow (which we can't consider BN a small group anymore, lol) we see that BN is evolving, which in any organization comes change, (good or bad). The growth potential is beyond comprehension and the possibilities are endless.

In the end, it's ultimately Eve's decision to add a Synthetic Section, however I do like this suggestion:

I think why not add a section to methods with pueraria, massage and pumping rather than separate the bio male section about it because in a way women sometimes try birth control can be used as nbe so that's a synthetic section wouldn't split bio males like your worrying but it would be useful to bio women too to have more info about it in methods I am sure I see women use estrogel and synthetic progesterone creams too without knowing if there are any risks so a section of information and risks of all kinds of synthetics would be very useful information to add to this forum.

This is a great idea! If Eve WAS to add a sub forum for pharmaceutical, synthetic breast enlargement, the place to put it would be on the first page with the other methods:
Herbal
Message
Pumping
PM
Glandular
Magnetic
Hypnosis
SYNTHETIC HRT
> within THAT sub forum, two sections. One for male and one for female

Excellent idea bmthx!

In closing, a big concern for me is for our members who are the most vulnerable and needing our help, as we see recent posts from some members about, (ie Help I'm desperate and other similar pleas ). I see it as a community obligation to help those members in their time of need, (for whatever the reason might be). When I lost my pops in April the overwhelming support I received touched my soul, for which I can never repay enough. (the reason behind the 'What happened to NBE? Thread stems from my concern for others).

Lastly, adding layers of new section is something we all need to embrace, change can be good, I'm prepared and won't give up hope that we're open to more ideas of growing breasts, after all, isn't that the main principle why we joined?, and a special thanks to Kari, (about knocked me over) which is a good thing.

Peace and love to all,

Lotus is one with the universe!!