Hi all, new bie to the forum

I’m 43, married and have a child. From a large conservative family of Asian background.

I have the longing to be feminine( grow little breasts and nice round butts)

I want to know if I can do that with PM alone, without anyone knowing

I would like to lead a double life with chest hair and a manly guy when I am around my family. And shaved chest ( breasts) when I travel and get privacy for some time as a woman (wig plus tiny breasts plus nice ass and a nice floral dress)

I am not sure if this possible. I want to do this forever ( I don’t ever want to grow breasts so it becomes noticeable )

I cannot afford to come out and I don’t want to come out. I would like to maintain this secret forever.

So am I just dreaming or is this possible?

Please be kind and honest!

Hi Browngirl

Aside from all the obvious "it's always better not to lie to your partner..... " etc... the real answer is that it really depends on your body shape.
If you are chubby some boobage is somehow expected. PM could cause your chubby pecs to get a bit rounder and more sensitive and you could easily get away with it.
If you are slim then things get more complicated. Two perky budding breasts on a perfectly smooth and flat chest are quite noticeable.

Also, Asian people tend to develop darker and larger nipples which are more feminine-looking than many white people's nipples. In my opinion, nipples can make the difference between a moob and a boob, and nipple development in Asian males on any estrogen seems to be faster than in other genetic males.

Lastly, you must consider your lifestyle. If you hardly ever go our bare chested, then you have less to worry about. If you are used to beach holidays, pool parties with the family, and saunas then, again, at some point someone could say something. From my experience, unless you are very slim, you can get away with an A or B cup just by saying that you have "relaxed muscle". If anyone gets really curious just say it's gynecomastia.

Hii

Thanks so much for the reply.

I have added my shaved chest pics..

I am 5'10 160 lbs.. and somewhat slender.. though I have a little tummy( planning to get rid of)

I would like feminine shape more than just the breasts.. I will be happy with the A-cup..
I would like the curvy figure where the fat stored in the ass..

I understand PM adds only breasts.. 

I want to think about this long and hard before I get into this..

Thanks for your guidance..

May be the pictures tell you something I dont know..

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I think PM taken at high rates works as oestrogen does so will not only eventually give you some breast growth but also a change in body shape through fat redistribution.
As for leading a double life each of us is the architect of our own lives and only you know how much feminisation you can achieve without it being noticed by your family. My only advise would be to cut back if changes become to apparent.

as far as I know/read PM has barely any real effect by itself, not backed by science. That said, you also need some kind of testosterone antagonist.
You won't get a feminine body just by PM.

What can also help you is lowering your body fat percentage and start with some exercices targeting your booty and boobs and believe me, those make some light but noticeable difference. Just YouTube some fitness video for a bubble butt or enhancing breast.
Exercise by itself won't make your boobs larger, but it will make your underlying muscles to grow a little and that will for sure push out your boobs.

Shaving is fine as long as you understand that it takes a while for the hair to grow back. Take that into consideration, you might have an unexpected pool party a week after you shaved. It will be noticed.

I've been living a double life since I was a child, and I had my embarrassing moments for sure. You'll learn how to be confident and divert discussion, turn into a laugh or avoid the problems altogether!

My new ready hand excuse for my new boobs growth is that I just passed the fifty mark and now I have some kind of normal hormonal imbalance and that it's normal. It works for most of the people.

Unless you go wild and get some BIG boobs (and I've seen many on this forum!), you can handle it.
Take also into consideration that your life partner might notice changes in your appearance more easily. The trick is to have a good back story and stick to it and be confident.

Good luck.

xxx

Wow. Thanks for the amazing replies! Appreciate it!!!

Hi all, new bie to the forum

I’m 43, married and have a child. From a large conservative family of Asian background.

I have the longing to be feminine( grow little breasts and nice round butts)

I want to know if I can do that with PM alone, without anyone knowing

I would like to lead a double life with chest hair and a manly guy when I am around my family. And shaved chest ( breasts) when I travel and get privacy for some time as a woman (wig plus tiny breasts plus nice ass and a nice floral dress)

I am not sure if this possible. I want to do this forever ( I don’t ever want to grow breasts so it becomes noticeable )

I cannot afford to come out and I don’t want to come out. I would like to maintain this secret forever.

So am I just dreaming or is this possible?

Please be kind and honest!

be honest with your partner, she may be very understanding

In my own experience, double life is definitely possible.
All you need is bulky enough male clothes to hide the feminine traits while in male mode, and tight female clothes to make them more pronounced while in female mode.
And if you train your voice to be more female, make sure you keep practicing your male voice so you can switch between them at will.