[IanW55]

Hello Prostatenipple.

May I congratulate you on a brilliant post, imo you have hit the nail right on the head, it needs no further comment.

Well done
Ian

[Heaven's Night]

I've said everything worth saying here and getting into insulting bs territory totally seals my interest on replying this thread. I am not a "biological male" to begin with and trans women are real women. Especially when that shit is pulled on intersex person, its bullshit.

Thanks for transphobia and disrespect.

I'm feeling its close to the time when I stop posting on this forum entirely because I do not feel welcome here if my goddamn fucking BIOLOGICAL SEX and identity are both being disrespected. I will not be called "male" and not called out for it.

And the fetish crap "debate" has been totally done to death many times over and now you're all just kicking a dead horse.

I'm not male, fuck off. And I do swear if I want. I call out stupid small minded men if I have to. But this thread is really useless. I will consider my participation seriously in near future. If this is what BN is getting into, I'm out. 

[prostatenipple]

I note your disrespect, swearing, unwillingness to amicably participate on this forum, misandry.

In any sort of workplace LGBTQ+ events, meetings, presentations, gatherings, this sort of behaviour would probably have gotten HR involved. Why can't the same friendly, accepting, welcoming attitude not be used here?

[Heaven's Night]

My contribution to this forum for the last five years has been invaluable participation. Stop using the "misandry" crutch because that is a lie. You deserve zero respect after calling me and other trans women "male".

This thread is useless and ripe for locking or removal. It doesn't serve any purpose and doesn't go anywhere. I wont bother after this. Any transphobic fuckwit doesn't deserve any energy or time from me, nor any advice on what this forum exist for.

[prostatenipple]

Please read my post again. Because you clearly have misinterpreted it.
You are saying things about me that I've not said or meant.

I can see you have an axe to grind.
https://www.breastnexum.com/showthread.php?tid=31474&pid=227955#pid227955

Your posts have come across as man-hating anger, and I think it shows in several posts.

I'm going to disengage here, now.

I didn't want this to become a member-bashing session, and even tried to make a level-headed post earlier in this thread, but other forum members need to see what kind of behaviour is going on here, and others are clearly upset about the rudeness.

[Heaven's Night]

Everything stopped the moment transphobia and bullshit "biology argument" entered the thread. And that misabndry shit is a complete fucking lie. I'm so absolutely tired of this fetish crap too. This thread is totally a dead horse by now. Previous ones have been it too.

I'm very close to being done with the entier forum because of the attitudes becoming so horrendously bad during last year - year and half.

Bye.

[IanW55]

Hi Lara,

Please accept this as help not being criticism or having a dig at you for I believe you along with others have been helpful to a lot of us.

IMO you are now coming over as a very angry person, to be honest you are winding up members, they are only trying to help you. You are going to alienate yourself by attacking those who comment on here because they have a different opinion to yours.

I also say that you may be reading things into comments that are not there, I read and to be honest cannot see what is wrong, may I suggest that this is a international site and we all speak different languages so som eof it may get lost in translation.

Ok you like me have had a difficult life and that is the issue how do you deal with it, because you are seeing demons where there are no demons.

May I give you some advcie, I was taught this many years ago, if you are going to comment on what you think you have read, sleep on it, get up the next day and say to yourself do I feel the same way today as I did when i went to bed, if you do then great comment because that was the right decision, if you get up and think you think oh well never mind, then it would have been the wrong decision so there is your answer.

Secondly, write it down and read it back to yourself ,again you may think ouch this will offend then do not post it.

In July 2024 I posted a thread about Mental Health, my journey through my life from being sexually abused to where I am today. If you want read it again, its in the general discussuins tab under mental health, might help.

So step back, if necessary seek help and discuss your issues be it your girlfriend or the medical people.

Take care
Ian