[Arksangle]

Hi, here is a little bit about me, I am a 28 year old male, I am not gay physically ( I love girls ) but in my mind I believe I should have been a girl, kinda like my mind is in the wrong body, every time I look at my self in the mirror I almost feel about to cry, I have been looking at the relocation surgery, my mind is ready for that but my body isnt... it looks very painful but once I do more research the pain may be worth it. Sorry if I am rambling on I have never been able to talk to anyone about this. I have spent my whole life acting masculine when inside I am very feminine the only ting I have shared with people is that my favorite color is pink and that I am very sensitive, I am afraid my family would disown me if I told them. ok to my question, I know a male can grow breasts but, are they female looking breasts? or are they just man breasts? and is there herbs that will give a male feminine qualities? sorry if my post is very wierd =(

Thank you
-Arkella

[Andy]

Hi and welcome to the NBE forum. I am short on time today but I wanted to drop you a quick post. I believe eveyone will be nice to you. We try to support everyone on this board regardles of sex. Here we are all interested in NBE for our own reasons. Your questions actually cover a great deal of information for them to be answered. Do not despair. All can be answered, it will probably take time and a little research on your part. Some ofyour questions I do not feel qualified to answer. I feel confident that several others on this board more qualified than myself will answer. If not, I will post you some information at that time. Let me say this. Yes men can grow female breasts. and they are REAL breasts. It takes time and trial and error. What works for one person may not work onanother. We are talking about biology here. The best thing I feel for anyone to do is be patient. I know it can be hard. At the bottom of the page is a link that says old breast nexus site. Go there and start reading the threads on male bio breast development. Then there is section in both the old and new forum on Glandular therapy. It is not herbs but , as I understand it, it is method of using hormones from animals to mimmic female body changes in males and females. IE smaller waist, bigger bum, breast development and changes in hair and nails and skin. Finally, Read, Study, give it time to settle in. Know what you are doing to yourself and why. These herbs and hormones are serious buisness. Changes that you make to your self may not be reversible given time. You need a doctor to be involved. Most of everything we talk about in this forum runs through the liver. I have mine checked every three months or more. I have not told my doctor what I am up to. But he is aware of what herbs I am taking. I will be making another post to your thread shortly and will tell you more about myself then.
Good luck in your goals.
Andy
P.S. I am a male as well. More in later post.

"I never look back, darling. it distracts from the now." Edna Mode

[Cheryl1989]

Hi arksangle, welcome to the forum hun, i am also male and i have been doing NBE for about 14 months, i have a program page if you want to have a look, as it just explains what i have taken and a little about myself. This is a great forum with alot of friendly people so dont be worried hun, i suggest the same as andy, to have a good read and see what you think may work, it is trial and error and unfortunatly some of the methods may not work aswell as you hope. If you truelly wish to become a woman i would suggest visiting your doctor and then they will refer you to a gender specialist, if they feel you are transgender they will give you hormones and keep an eye on your health. The herbs and so on on these forums can be powerful but they are not as strong as prescribed hormones and you should be safe taking them aslong as you have no medical problems. But i really think you should see your doctor hun and do this right, as like andy said theres no going back when things change and you have your whole life to consider. But feel free to message me if you have any questions and good luck.
Hugs Cheryl xxxx

[Andy]

Arksangle, I hope you are doing well and in research assimilation mode. (No Borg intended) I apologize in taking so long to post the follow up I promised you. I and my alter ego have had a rough couple of weeks. I agree with what Cheryl said. I had hoped she would post to this question. Since she is going though a journey that you have proposed. Now a little about myself. I tell you this so you will understand that I have some small understanding of where you are coming from. You are not alone. There are others out there with stories similar to your own.
I am a 39 year old biological male like yourself. Due to some events that happened to me at the end of last year and the first part of this year. I came to realize that I needed to explore a side of myself that I have always considered wrong and kept repressed. I needed to come to a greater understanding of me. So that I could live with more acceptance of myself. That led me here to this forum where I began my journey. Here, There is allot of information available for the purpose of breast development. The old forum ,now the archive site. (Under the biological male section.) Has personal posts from other males seeking breasts ,and more, in their personal journeys .Where will this take me? I do not know. At the moment I am content to be just be me and male.With a few modifications. I spend time researching and asking myself questions for a better understanding of myself.

I wanted to give you a link to a web site I found ,personally, to be of help. I will also list for you the links to the sites forums. I found a great sense of comfort here on this site and the one I am going to list. Because, I realized that there were others out there with stories like mine and what they did about it. I was not the freak I thought I was ,or others were for that matter. Many times while reading threads I said “hey, that is me”.
Like Cheryl said do this right. Seek professional help before you make any major life altering decisions. Self medicating with out proper research can be dangerous. I am not an expert but I wish to pass along information that I found helpful.

This is the main site. Be sure to follow all the links on the left side of the screen to help with definitions.
Site main page.

http://www.lauras-playground.com/

This is the link to the forum main page.

http://www.lauras-playground.com/forums/index.php?act=idx

This link has information on finding a therapist you feel comfotable with. Use the search box at the bottom of the screen to help locate the threads.

http://www.lauras-playground.com/forums/index.php?showforum=14

Lastly here is forum link where I found some self-clarification.

http://www.lauras-playground.com/forums/index.php?act=SF&s=&f=24

If you have any questions. I will do what I can to help. Please feel free to PM me or use the email link on my profile page to ask. I will PM you back ASAP.

andy

[Mel C]

Hi Arksangle.

I am a biological female,but I would like to extend a hand and welcome you to the forum.

We are all here for the same reason-you need not feel uncomfortable here.

Yes,males can grow female looking breasts.Go to pics page and check out Cheryl1989's pics.They are definitely female looking,and quite honestly,I am amazed and envious(in a good way).Cheryl knows this.It actually keeps me motivated.

I will never judge you,as you have your own personal reasons for NBE,just like everyone else here.

Welcome!

[Arksangle]

Thank you everyone,

I feel very welcome here and thank you for all the information I am reading through it, and of course I am not going to do anything without a doctor, but we have to start searching someplace right? =)

[Andy]

Hey. Glad to hear from you. I just wanted to take a moment to give you a few more links that I have found. These have been helpful to me in my journey. I am no expert, but wish to pass along info I have found useful.
This site is by a bio-male who grew out to a c-cup. His main page
http://www.male-breast-enlargement.org/
has a few interesting articles, but is full of adverts.
HIs blog page plus the comments made by the visitors makes for interesting reading.
http://malebreastenlargement.blogspot.com/
This site has a lot of thought provoking ideas and theory on the "sx" of the brain. How we think and act male or female. It does include a testing link.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/sex/add_user.shtml
This site also has a testing site developed by the site developer. \\The site itself has good info and a Q&A section. I had lost track of it but found it again recently.
http://www.transsexual.org/
testing site
http://www.transsexual.org/TEST0.html


Hope you are doing well.
andy

[accidental_ booby]

Arksangel,
Here is another link that you may find interesting and useful. the forum covers all transgendered people and also has a genetic girl fand genetic male forum if you have a significant other who would also like to join.
good luck with your journey.
http://www.crossdressers.com

[carla57]

I took Andy's sex test from the BBC. I scored 50% female, the same as an average female. I guess that may have something to do with why I want breasts!

[Andy]

I also scored a 50%. My results indicated that I had a balanced brain fuction. Basicly I have traits from what is considered male and female thinking patterns.