The thing to remember is that NO ONE knows what black and white "Normal" is. Just like taste in food... some like HOT food, some are happy with just pasta, women the same. Some like skinny rail of a woman, some prefer curvy to more.
That's why there is such a big wide range of Trans Gender. I mean for me, I love to cross dress... All the time? No. But I don't want to do injustice to females by being fake. Hence the boobs and curves I would love to have. For me, that's my normal. To other's, I am sinning and going to Hell cause of it. Others might think I'm sick. So, I again say, normal is how a person feels about themselves. Maybe based on love ones perceptions might have weight... but it's still normalization. Right?