(27-09-2016, 11:15 PM)iaboy Wrote:(27-09-2016, 11:04 PM)julieTG Wrote: Crikey
It is valid thought though
Suppression can kill you
Julie
I know that stress can be a Pandora of many ailments. But never thought of this. I thought this was probably one of the better sessions I have had yet.
I fully agree with that.
True, so true. I guess my GID was or is my suppression. I just never put 2 + 2 together. And if I ever did, it was was 44 not just 4. I am not sure how to explain it. But I think I have a better understanding now.
Hot off the press.
My therapist asked me if I ever had regrets trying to feminize. I told her yes, that a little whisper in my ear every so often. Like... "What are you doing? You are going to turn 62 in a few short days! !" Then I told her if that doesn't do it, then another thought comes in like...... " What are you doing to your poor wife???? She married a man, not a pansy! !"
My therapist suggested that I had every right to be happy. That my "Two Spirit" was a fact of life. That I needed to have a heart to heart chat with my wife to be truly happy. She was a true believer in when a person has a positive outlook that a person can conquer or at least more able to work through any situation. And that the physical well being was directly effected as well.
That the reason I go back and forth isn't because of anything other than being conditioned over the years that pretty much everything should or was black and white. That I had to remember there are shades of grey as well.
Well, that's the short form of our 45 min. session.
Later Friends
My therapist asked me if I ever had regrets trying to feminize. I told her yes, that a little whisper in my ear every so often. Like... "What are you doing? You are going to turn 62 in a few short days! !" Then I told her if that doesn't do it, then another thought comes in like...... " What are you doing to your poor wife???? She married a man, not a pansy! !"
My therapist suggested that I had every right to be happy. That my "Two Spirit" was a fact of life. That I needed to have a heart to heart chat with my wife to be truly happy. She was a true believer in when a person has a positive outlook that a person can conquer or at least more able to work through any situation. And that the physical well being was directly effected as well.
That the reason I go back and forth isn't because of anything other than being conditioned over the years that pretty much everything should or was black and white. That I had to remember there are shades of grey as well.
Well, that's the short form of our 45 min. session.
Later Friends
(04-10-2016, 10:19 PM)julieTG Wrote: Bugger fuck
A few weeks ago that was exactly what I was going too suggest you do
Ie
Go and have a really in depth talk with your wife
Before the therapist
And then thought better off it ????
Julie
LOL.. I was hoping that the therapist could/would straighten or right the ship, as it were. I told my wife, that the support group was sort of a waste of time, except giving a name of a few therapist and a local Gender Doctor. I suggested at the time that I would probably try to find a therapist that had some experience with my problems.
But, for some reason, it's far easier to discuss the outcomes here, than with her. It's not that I am trying to hide a secret. I was just hoping to get my head wrapped around things or announce , for lack of better term, a cure from the therapist. Does that make sense???
To quote something I'm sure I heard somewhere before from someone wiser than me:
"A therapist can't tell you anything you don't already know"
Doesn't make them useless though. They're basically a friend you pay to talk to you who is guaranteed to keep things confidential.
Talking to friends is really therapeutic.
Referral letters are nice too.
"A therapist can't tell you anything you don't already know"
Doesn't make them useless though. They're basically a friend you pay to talk to you who is guaranteed to keep things confidential.
Talking to friends is really therapeutic.
Referral letters are nice too.
(05-10-2016, 05:57 AM)Th3saurus Wrote: To quote something I'm sure I heard somewhere before from someone wiser than me:
"A therapist can't tell you anything you don't already know"
Doesn't make them useless though. They're basically a friend you pay to talk to you who is guaranteed to keep things confidential.
Talking to friends is really therapeutic.
Referral letters are nice too.
Yes Thesurus, I think you pretty close to 100%. At this point, my therapist is at a level I wish my wife was at in that regards.
(05-10-2016, 05:57 AM)Th3saurus Wrote: To quote something I'm sure I heard somewhere before from someone wiser than me:
"A therapist can't tell you anything you don't already know"
Doesn't make them useless though. They're basically a friend you pay to talk to you who is guaranteed to keep things confidential.
Talking to friends is really therapeutic.
Referral letters are nice too.
Yes Thesurus, I think you pretty close to 100%. At this point, my therapist is at a level I wish my wife was at in that regards.
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