[GoneGirl]

You know, Missed, that's an interesting idea. Clara, I'm sure, will be happy to try that on our next break.

It's one of the few good aspects of doing monthly breaks. It gives me a shot at expressing myself in the bedroom. One week out of four doesn't seem very fair though.

My time starts tomorrow. No PM for 7 days! Yay! I plan to gorge myself on Butea Superba, MACA, and L-arginine all week. Maybe a large helping of Cialis, too. I warned my dear wife to watch out!

Clara's other half

I have a feeling I'd dread those breaks, even with a willing sex partner. Just the urge always sickened me. I guess my "male half" just isn't a full half lol.

Oh well, I suppose we all fall on different places of the spectrum.

I'm sure you would, Sarah. Fortunately, there's no reason for you to endure breaks anymore. I'm happy for you. Were you always so sure of your gender identity?

I'm not sure where I fall on the gender spectrum yet. Sometimes I get the feeling I'm on the road to full transition, while other times I'm thinking that I could be happy living out my life as a man, especially now that PM has taken away a lot of the anxiety I used to feel in the male role. Most of the time, though I'm somewhere in between. That's better for me, anyway. I'm not at a point in my life where transitioning is practical, and the less I'm inclined to it, the better, I suppose.

I think my wife is okay with me being half and half, and I'm so thankful she gives me some room to be Clara Kay in her presence. She's told me many times that she likes my male body down there and wouldn't want to be without it. On the other hand, she's not opposed to my feminizing my appearance. It's not unusual for her to get turned on when I play girl. If I could play the man for her, that would be fine, too, but it doesn't quite work that way.

Our situation is not unlike Dana and Allison's relationship before Dana's SRS (from the book "Trans-sister Radio"). Allison dreaded Dana's decision to get the surgery. Dana's male genitals were a kind of security blanket to calm the apprehension she felt about Dana's coming out as a transsexual -- an event that was not easy for her to accept at first.

This tightrope that we partnered transgenders walk is not the safest place to hang out. The rewards can be wonderful, but there's a downside, too. I'm thinking of JustEmily and fwoodhull right now. I wonder how they will manage it.

CK

[Missed Miss]

Another thing you can try is, instead of just imagining you have a strap-on instead of a real dick is to actually wear a strap-on and fuck her with both at the same time, raising her enjoyment, too, if she's into doing DP's. If not, maybe you can put one in her vagina and the other an go up the ol' dirt road.

[SarahSchilling]

I'm sure you would, Sarah. Fortunately, there's no reason for you to endure breaks anymore. I'm happy for you. Were you always so sure of your gender identity?

Hmm, well my earliest memories are of praying to God every night to wake up as a girl...so I've been pretty sure of my gender identity. Even then, I spent quite a few years escaping from it with drugs and self-deception.

The practicality of actually doing something about it, that took even longer to be sure of. Still not totally there, but I'm much closer now. ;p (I won't consider myself "there" until I'm fulltime)

[GoneGirl]

Well, Sarah, I just want to tell you how much I admire you for how you've turned your life around and taken control of your gender identity. You deserve a lot of credit for the courage and determination you've shown. Good going!

Clara

[SarahSchilling]

Well, Sarah, I just want to tell you how much I admire you for how you've turned your life around and taken control of your gender identity. You deserve a lot of credit for the courage and determination you've shown. Good going!

Clara

LOL, you sound like my therapist.

I don't know how to take such glowing complements. Thanks?

Ok, sorry for derailing the topic, this was supposed to be about sex.

[Samantha Rogers]

As the OP, I can say with confidence, Sarah, that it's all good. I start threads just to provoke thought and possibly interesting conversations.
And you already know I'm proud of you, Sis.

[Samantha Rogers]

Ooops, wait, Clara started this one... Nevermind.

[Missed Miss]

For those of you into nipple play, I just discovered a new way to do it last night. If you recall earlier, Mousekateers, I mentioned wearing a spandex bra and gently, very slowly dragging your fingernails across your nipples, well, last night I tried closing my thumbnail up against my index finger nail, as if I was holding a guitar pick and gently, slowly "strumming" my nipples and it feels even better!!

[Wuerstchen]

For those of you into nipple play, I just discovered a new way to do it last night. If you recall earlier, Mousekateers, I mentioned wearing a spandex bra and gently, very slowly dragging your fingernails across your nipples, well, last night I tried closing my thumbnail up against my index finger nail, as if I was holding a guitar pick and gently, slowly "strumming" my nipples and it feels even better!!

Thanks for the tip, MM. I am a passionate devotee of nipple orgasm, and have been for many years, and am still finding new techniques to pleasure my nipples. I think I am going to try this in my next nipple orgasm session.

Probably my most important single discovery about the nipples is that they are like the switch that erogenizes the entire body. By arousing myself through nipple play I can have multiple orgasms by rubbing almost any part of body--breasts (without touching the nipples), belly, thighs, back of the neck. Each of these has a different character, and each area can produce clusters of orgasms in quick succession.

[Missed Miss]

For those of you into nipple play, I just discovered a new way to do it last night. If you recall earlier, Mousekateers, I mentioned wearing a spandex bra and gently, very slowly dragging your fingernails across your nipples, well, last night I tried closing my thumbnail up against my index finger nail, as if I was holding a guitar pick and gently, slowly "strumming" my nipples and it feels even better!!

Thanks for the tip, MM. I am a passionate devotee of nipple orgasm, and have been for many years, and am still finding new techniques to pleasure my nipples. I think I am going to try this in my next nipple orgasm session.

Probably my most important single discovery about the nipples is that they are like the switch that erogenizes the entire body. By arousing myself through nipple play I can have multiple orgasms by rubbing almost any part of body--breasts (without touching the nipples), belly, thighs, back of the neck. Each of these has a different character, and each area can produce clusters of orgasms in quick succession.

Well, good luck with it, I hope it works for you. :-)